No heartbeat 💔

[FrancyItaly]

I had my first scan at the hospital and they saw no heartbeat. I have no feelings at all, I just feel very sorry for my husband who is crashed. Thank you all for you support during this short journey.

[ToughCOOKIE78]

Oh hun, I have no words. I am so sorry to hear this. I know how it feels. I wish I could say something sensible to cheer you up but I’m not sure what to say. When it happened to me, I was as ‘no feelings’ as you now. They came after. Allow them in and move on, I guess. But right now take care of yourself. ❤️Lots of love xxx

[Redsequin]

Oh, Francy. I had been thinking of you and hoping it would all work out, and I'm so so so sorry it hasn't this time. Sending love. I hope you can take some time off to rest and heal. xxx

[Hoping20]

I am so sorry for what you are going though right now. It is truly heartbreaking💔 Do what ever you can to get through these next few days and weeks. I really hope you and your husband have some support around you when you feel you can reach out. Take time to grieve. And please try to take care x

[Lovemylion]

O hunny. I'm so sorry. You have been through so many ups and downs in these last few weeks. Getting that news at the scan after previously seeing a heartbeat is just devastating. I know that feeling all too well. Just take your time to heel lovely and here for you if you need to talk. Xxx

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry, life is so cruel, like Toughcookie says the numbness works into other emotions over time. Just look after each other and talk it through Tons of love and hugs xx

[Hoop123]

I'm so so sorry. This is so devastating and there's no words to really describe it. Please take care of yourselves and take time to grieve. Thinking of you and sending lots of love❤️ xxx

[Chel91]

I'm so sorry hun, it's truly devastating 😥 Sending you lots of love and strength xx

[Chasing-rainbows]

Oh I am so sorry to hear this, it can leave you feeling so numb and in shock. Be gentle on yourself.

[KiboXX]

Oh darling I have no words, I’m devastated for you 😢 I’m so sorry for you and your husband, it’s not fair. It’s never fair 💔 xxx

[SK73]

So so sorry to read this😔 sending you both lots of love ❤️

[ZiggyandBC]

I’m so so sorry lovely, you’re both in my thoughts. I hope you have all the support you need right now and can take the time you need to process and grieve. Sending you all my love ❤️

[COAGMS]

I’m so so sorry, sending you and your husband all my love. This journey is so cruel I just hope you can lean on and support each other. xxx

[Boo718]

😢😢😢 such a cruel cruel world. Hug each other extra tight and let it all out. I’m so sorry for you both. For this to happen at any time is awful but after ivf it’s soo much worse. Stay strong xxx

[Eternalwarrior]

Oh, love! I have been thinking of you and I am so so sorry to hear this. It is so sad😢Take a day at a time, be kind to yourself and if you need to have a chat, let me know. I have suffered from recurrent miscarriages and I can totally understand how you feel. Surround yourself by the people who love you and take the time you need to grieve with your husband. I have been there and, like you, had moments of 'no feelings', shock, sadness. I am sending you all my love and I am here if you need me

❤️ xxx

[zytajones]

I'm so so so sorry honey. I just can't believe it. I know that no words could give you comfort now. Please just be kind to yourself. Lots of hugs xxx

[DG2022]

😢 💔 xx

[Jonesy84]

So sorry to read this. Thinking of you both at this sad and cruel time xxx

[Jess1981]

Oh no the words all of us dread to hear at a scan I’m so sorry 😥 it is so heartbreaking 💔 i felt numb and shell shocked when I was told my daughter Amelia had no heartbeat I think when you have such a shock like that it’s normal to feel numb. I am so sorry I know you had all the tests too which didn’t flag up any issue 🥲 I hoped this was your time 🥲💔 I wish I had better advice but be kind to yourself and know this is not your fault in anyway at all ( I know from experience I blamed myself when everyone said it wasn’t my fault) Thinking of you Xx

[Char2383]

💔 oh love, I can’t believe I’m reading this, I’m so so sorry, words are not enough, sending you love and strength xxx

[ttcemmie]

Oh Francesca. 😢😢😢 This is the worst news. I'm so so sorry. There are no words that can mean anything. I am thinking of you and sending absolutely all my love. Here for you if you want to rant or talk about anything. xxxx

[Joeysjourney]

So sorry to hear this, my heart truly goes out to you. Xxx

[XOXO13]

I am so sorry to read this 💔 I’ve been there, I know how incredibly painful a missed miscarriage can be and know you’ve sadly encountered a few now, which is utterly heartbreaking. There are no words that will make you feel better. Take your time to process and sit with your emotions, cuddle one another and talk. Keep talking. Big hugs 💜 xxx

[Shireen1]

I am so so sorry Francy! I was thinking of you and hoping for the best result. Take good care of yourself. I know that feeling of numbness very well but better days will come! Hugs!

[Littlepeax]

💔😔 So sorry to read this FrancyItaly after all you've been through. Can't imagine how you are feeling. Sending lots of hugs and love to you both xxx

[Solly-44]

I’m so so sorry lovely, I wish you weren’t going through this. Sending hugs and strength xx

[Buisquits]

I ma so sorry. There are no words that will make you feel better now. I'm sending all my love x

[Cinderella5]

Awww lovely I'm so very sorry to hear this! We were all rooting for you and your much wanted baby! There are no words that will make you feel any better but thinking of you and sending love and hugs to you both at this awful time. Cry and talk lots together.xxx

[letro112]

I'm soo sorry to read this 😭...there really are no words

I had my scan on Monday and our itle heart had stopped beating too 😭

I am in tmw for a DnC .. here if u need to talk..

My husband too took it quiet badly this time round .. its so hard to have such high hopes and then have them dashed ..

Thinking of you both ❤

[Twiglet2 in reply to letro112]

I’m so sorry to hear that, thinking of you today xx 💜

[Hoping20 in reply to letro112]

I am very sorry for your loss also. This journey is so very hard. Take extra care of yourself and I hope you have some support around you right now. Thinking of you x

[S2017 in reply to letro112]

So sorry for your loss...

[AN791]

Really do feel for you 😢 sending you hugs xxx

[Mahriya]

I’m really sorry 😢 Can’t think of any words. I just hope you manage to support each other through this nightmare. Look after yourself xxx

[Sandydaiz]

So sorry to read this.

[Nane22]

Aw hun I’m so so sorry 😞.. sending you big hugs and love and strength xxx

[MakingbabyNM]

I am so truly truly sorry to read this sad and heartbreaking news! There are no words at all to make you feel better Francy. My heart is broken for you both. Take care you’re so lovely and supportive despite your own battle. Take care lovely ♥️ Xx

[TexasRose210]

Sorry for your loss

[Jrss1]

Ah no… that’s such terrible news. I’m so so sorry. There are no words. Thinking of you and you husband. Take care xx

[Twiglet2]

😢 totally devastated for you both, there are no words 😥 sending love 💜 xx

[Bozo_the_pumpkin]

Oh no I am so so sorry to hear this. Sending you lots of hugs and thinking of you and your husband💔🌹

[Skippy1982]

Sending love , so sorry for your lost- it’s so unfair 😔💗💗💗

[Jana483]

I have no words honestly it's heartbreaking

[Gillis]

Honey you poor thing, I'm so sorry to hear what your going there. Sending you lots of love.

[Riri88]

Ooh my love, I don’t even know what to say after everything you been through. We are all here for you if you need support and sending you so many hugs and love to deal with this heartbreaking news and for your hubbie of course. Be gentle and take your time to deal with this, emotions will come at one point and let them flow. Keeping you in my thoughts and sending you strength! ❤️

[HopeOfYou]

Francy... I'm really really sorry for what's happening to you and your husband. Stay strong ❤️

[Corchi]

I’m so sorry. I just saw a heart beat last week at 7 weeks and 4 days later lost it in the most horrific way with hemorrhaging. Life is cruel and unfair. Take your time to grieve. What helped me was a change of scenery if that’s possible for you and your husband to go somewhere ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear this, it’s just awful. Lots of advice from everyone here so I would just like to say how truly sorry I am. Big hug x

[Chiefy]

So sorry for your loss xx

[Positivechangeplease]

So sorry for you, this is so hard. ❤️

[ki50]

So sorry to hear this Francy, it's such a cruel process when this happens sending you love x

[SianieShorts]

I’m so sorry to hear this 😢I went through similar back in November. Take good care of yourself, the ‘feelings’ may come, in which case, allow yourself to go through them xx

[Maisie234]

I'm heartbroken for you, I was hoping this was it for you. I know the feeling too and took some comfort in the fact at least I could get pregnant. Take as much time out as you can is my advice. I spoke to a counsellor online last Jan which really helped. I promise you will be feel better and everyone here is behind you wishing you well. ❤️

[overstory]

🙁 I’m truly sorry, Francy. Big hug 💜

[Hanj10]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve been there and after an initial breakdown in the car park screaming I went numb. I found talking therapy really helped me get my emotions out as I felt unable to talk to friends or family. Also there’s an amazing podcast and Instagram called the worst girl gang ever which is a community of women who have experienced baby loss (at any stage) and they provided me with comfort of knowing I wasn’t alone in how I was feeling. Be kind to yourself. Xx

[Daughterofaking]

Sorry to hear this dear. Be strong and look after yourself, there is hope in the future. xx

[S2017]

😔 So sorry for this pain and loss..

[Barbemily]

Dear almost exact thing happen to me 3 days before Christmas so I know how you feel it is super super hard emotionally. Last miscarriage they did not see heartbeat at 7 weeks, in March last year I had lovely beta and got pregnant on my own after 2 failed FETa and everiyhing all was fine after so many years of struggles.At 9 weeks babie's heart stopped. To say I was broken would be understatement. K barely survived. Was thinking if it ever happens again I will die and here Iam alive

And still trying and not giving up. Give yourself time you are young. Be mad be sad be upset be depressed...go through it all so you can heal. We will never forget it and that changes you for ever but gives life another peespective showing how it is fragile and priceless. Feel free to PM ANYTIME. Sending lots of hugs and kisses.

[Sparklylife]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[Iloveevie]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Look after each other xx

[peanut8176]

So deeply sorry to read your news FrancyItaly, so absolutely cruel sending you my biggest IVF sisterhood hugs and wishing that you get peace and heal soon. 💞💞💞🙏🏽Xx

[MakingbabyN]

Thinking of you, I have no words. 💔 xxx

[Janop79]

I’m so sorry to read this. Sending you so much love xx

[Bailey_2019]

I'm so sorry to hear this sending you big hugs 💔

[Bella_Bee]

Oh I'm so so sorry 💔💔💔 Un abbraccio grande grande Francesca. 😔