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FOETUS WITH NO HEARTBEAT

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It saddens my heart to let you know that we saw our precious 8 weeks plus embryo today with no heartbeat .

Doctor said the heartbeat stopped like 2 to 3 days ago as baby was measuring 7 weeks and 5 days .

I am so devastated and exhausted. I’m so sad it’s just like this is the end of the world.

😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

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Drives profile image
Drives

I'm so sorry to read this 💔 sending you lots of love and hope you've got a good support network to look after you at this sad time x x

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CatDV

My lovely, I am so sorry to hear your news 😢

I was told the same exactly one week ago. It’s devastating 😔

I really hope you will have very good support around you.

Sending you love and a very tight hug

You are strong, you’ll get through this ❤️

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Kari55 in reply to CatDV

How are you doing Cat? X

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CatDV in reply to Kari55

Dear Kari, very kind of you for asking.

It’s still very raw and very painful at the moment.

I am trying to slowly move on and I already started thinking about my next FET. I guess it’s my way of coping

Love

Cat xx

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Kari55 in reply to CatDV

You are very brave and I’m glad you are planning your FET. Big hugs x

in reply to CatDV

It's cruel isn't it when one minute you are pregnant full of hopes and dreams and the next it's all snatched away from you.

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CatDV in reply to

Very very cruel 😢

My thoughts are with the incredibly strong ladies that have to go through this multiple times.

It’s just not fair...

in reply to CatDV

Yes it is most bloody unfair isn't it?

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aamiller405

so sorry..sending love xo

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Hopeforhappy

Oh nooooooo 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 i dont even know what to say...am sooo sorry. It saddens me soo much and i can only imagine your grief. I can only say women are courageous...we bear so much.. sending you loads of love, hugs and courage.

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2-shades-of-hope

I’m so sorry xx

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Sfarre

Oh no, I'm so so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself xx

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chickp

I’m so so sorry to read this. I can’t imagine feeling ‘normal’ ever again at the moment and we didn’t get as far as you. Sending hugs xxx

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Lisaworthy1981

Oh no I’m so sorry to hear this! I can’t imagine how your feeling! Thinking of you xxxx

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Cinderella5

Gosh I'm so sorry Nancy!😢 Thinking of you & sending hugs.xx

No words can make it any better but sending my sympathies and hugs xx

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ICSIBaby86

I am so so sorry to hear this 😢 sending you lots of love and cwtches from Wales xxxx

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MrsR8

So sorry to read this - thinking of you xx

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Rowly88

So sorry to hear your news, sending you lots of hugs and love during this difficult time xxx

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MissSaoPaulo

This is so heartbreaking. Sending you lots of love xxx

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Emma04

I am so very sorry to hear your sad news. As others have said I hope you have lots of support around you - sending love xxx

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Lou7744

I’m so, so sorry to read this. It’s truly heartbreaking. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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Kari55

So sorry. I hope you can have some counselling session to help you through this tough time. Lots of love x

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Enaj51

So so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself and take your time. xx

I'm so sorry to hear that and yes it does feel like the end of the world when you are looking forward to something and then it's taken away from you like that.

So, so sorry for your lost. Be kind to yourself. Time heals, even if it may not seem like it now. Sending love xx

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CC2018

So sorry for your loss. Take care xx

Core profile image
Core

So so sad to read this, sending love and thoughts your way xx

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Lovely79

I am so so sorry to hear 😭. I feel your pain hun. I av been tru it. and so have more ladies on here. No words can heal such pain💔. but don't give up love. Try stay strong. xxxxx lots of hugs

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Kellyanned

I am so so sorry to read this. I didn't even know there was such a thing as missed miscarriage until we went through the same a few weeks ago. We found out on the 19th Dec, couldn't get surgical management until the 2nd Jan, its the hardest thing i have ever gone through.

Only advice i can offer is to talk, don't bottle things up, allow yourself to grieve and watch out for those hormones dropping...that was the bit that broke me and i cried by myself at all crap tv for a whole 2 days and didn't move. I needed to.

Look after yourself, this is hard but you can and will get through this xxx

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Bexta6060

Oh I am so sorry, I can only imagine how devastated you must feel. Be good to yourself for a while and surround yourself with your people. Sending big hugs to you xxx

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mimisquiz77

I am so sorry for you. I hope you are not alone and have a good support network around you. It is such a devastating news. Nobody should live that... I send you a big hug and lots of love💕

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Fifikoko

Hi Nancy dear. I literally feel your pain as we had our 8 week scan on Wednesday and were told the same thing- our little baby was only measuring 6 weeks + 1 and no heartbeat heard. I could tell from our lovely sonographers face that something was wrong even before she said she couldn’t hear a heart beat. It’s a terrible, terrible feeling and situation to have to go through and I’m so sorry you (and so many others on here) have had to go through it too. Sending you lots of really tight hugs and kisses xxx We just have to be strong, pray we heal physically and emotionally as quickly as possible and start planning the next phase of our journies. 😘

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baby2016

Oh Nancy i am so sorry to read this, its is truly heartbreaking, and as someone who has had numerous losses, 2 of those being mmc i know comepletely the pain and utter devastation seeing that scan causes. It is my constant fear now.

Cry, scream, do whatever eases the pain if only for a minute, let it all out, grief is a huge ripple effect that comes in waves and this type of loss really did floor me so be kind to yourself and selfish. Sending you a huge hug xx

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Nancy001

THANKS TO EVERYONE WHO REACHED OUT TO ME.

Honestly it is not an easy feelings at all. I am so week and tired. But like most of you said , time will heal this pain. It’s a terrible thing to see on the scan. Especially when the baby has formed already.

Thanks once again and I wish every one waiting to be scanned a very good luck . Love you guys! Y’all are my family 😘😘😘

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TRYING2016 in reply to Nancy001

My heart breaks to read this, and im sorry for what you have gone through. I went through the same thing and its the biggest heartbreak you can go through. But time does heal pain. Lots of love xxxxxxxx

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Snowy76

So so sorry to hear this. Big hugs to you and your other half. x

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Georgie17

I am so sorry. I went through the same on my third attempt and it was so hard. I'm thinking of you. take care x

Elynn profile image
Elynn

I am so sorry for you. 💜

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Rainbowhope

My heart to completely broken for you. This process makes me question my faith

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