3rd FET - BFN

[Alwaysbelieving]

We really thought our test would have read ‘pregnant’ this morning but no such luck. We are heartbroken and can’t make sense of this. Our first FET was a chemical then second and third have been BFN’s. We could have had blood tests after the second FET but we decided to try again and have them if the third didn’t work so it looks like that’s where we are headed next. I’ve tested on 10dp5dt and official test day is Tuesday but I really don’t think it will change now! No question really just an update I suppose….you know how it is. Any advice welcome though. Also, I have my fingers crossed for those waiting and hoping for their BFP’s x

[Fudge1980]

Aww sending you so much love 💕 honestly I think we all feel your pain and disappointment with you. I haven’t got any advice but I hope you can pick yourselves back up and keep fighting xx hugs xx

[Alwaysbelieving in reply to Fudge1980]

Thanks so much, very kind of you xx

[AuroraXen]

Sorry to hear this. So sweet if you to still be hoping for good outcomes for others in their TWW 😍 It's hard to know when to do extra tests isn't it... so many if them are 'unproven' and all seem to take time and extra money of course... hard to know if its just a case of statistics and we'll get there eventually 🤷‍♀️ Sending virtual hugs in what I know is a super disappointing time xx

[Alwaysbelieving in reply to AuroraXen]

Thanks for your lovely message and kind words. I know, I wish I knew how long it would take and what we need to do to get there but wouldn’t everyone! Virtual hugs gratefully received 🥰 xx

[Millbanks]

I’m so sorry lovely. It’s a heartbreaking thing to see and I know it well. There are lots of things you can try and things you can test so don’t give up! I know it feels exhausting and such a long road but you will get there xxx

[Twiglet2]

So sorry to hear that, thinking of you and hope the blood tests give you some answers and options going forward xxx

[Bistbee]

So sorry and sending love and support. Really hope you’re being kind to yourself right now and giving yourself all the time & space to process any grief that’s coming up and start to healfrom what you’ve just had to ensure. I remember our 3rd bfn feeling like such a low moment as genuinely thought we’d be ‘3rd time lucky!’ - but it wasn’t to be. I can’t tell you how to move forward from here but know you are not alone and you have support out there. You are a total warrior xxx