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*TW* Another BFN after FET

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Today was our 2nd failed FET since our 1st in December, looks like the journey begins again as we have no more Frosties. 💙

Not sure why I’m writing this post, maybe writing it down makes it real. But in any case I’m sending everyone on this journey lots of love, remember to be kind to yourself every step of the way. 🫶🏽

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Thinking of you Make sure have people around you for support Keep talking to your OH Sending you both a big hug

Look after yourself

Janet -Partner

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MiniCeeCee

sending lots of love, similar situation for me with my second failed cycle this weekend 😔 it hits you just as hard doesn’t it… hoping we can both find the strength to keep going and get the happy endings we want xxx

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JB124

sending you lots of hugs x hope you have support around you. This is a difficult journey, hopefully we will get through this x

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Doivf2024

I also have had negatives on my test day today. I feel your pain, and really hope our dreams come true. X

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Twiglet2

I’m so sorry 😥 sending you a big hug and remember to spoil yourself a bit before you dive in again, you deserve it xx

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Thierry101

Sending you loads of love. We have had two failed round since November + waiting for my period to start round 3. Send me a message if you want my lovely xx

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Natasha2012 in reply toThierry101

I am exactly the same . Two failures since November . Round 3 is also when my period starts . Good luck and feel free to pm me also . Have you had any investigations/ change of protocol ? Xx

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Meeandembryos

Sorry to hear this xx

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LondonBase

Big big hug. Not much to say and don't have any advice, but I know the feeling of a BFN after all that work and I hate that so many of us have to go through it :(

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Jenisa

sending lots of love, similar situation for me with my second failed cycle this weekend 😔 it hits you just as hard doesn’t it… hoping we can both find the strength to keep going and get the happy endings we want

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Natasha2012 in reply toJenisa

Everything you need to keep going is within you . Lots of love ❤️ xxxx

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LittleL3

Very sorry to hear that. I had a failed FET last month which was our only embryo from first cycle IVF. Starting again soon for another EC cycle but not sure how I'm going to cope as so many worries even about getting any embryos at all and then if it doesn't work again at transfer stage. This is also on top of 6 cycles of OI which resulted in 1 miscarriage last year. My new favourite word to describe ttc with fertility treatment is gruelling 😂. I don't think people outside this community understand the nightmares we endure tbh.

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Natasha2012

sending you all the love and positive energy . I have had two failed transfers , don’t loose the hope ! I’m going again with my last frostie next month . I have had a couple of investigations and a scratch and hoping 3 is my magic number . Xxx

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