BFN on day 10 of FET? :(

[KittyK]

BFN on FET cycle. This was my OTD But it's 10 days so it feels really early? Shouldn't it be 14 days to test? It's way too early to ring the clinic. Only like 4.50 (I desperately needed to pee and couldn't wait any longer) so I guess I'll ring them when they open

Has anyone ever gotten a BFN testing in day 10 of an FET and then got a bfp after waiting a few days? Or should I accept that our last chance hasn't worked?

This was pretty much our last shot as we can't afford to do this again.

EDIT!!!!!!!:

Called clinic and they say since I haven't bled continue my meds and test again in 2 days. But she said it's unlikely to change. Gutted to be honest and feel like I'm just barely holding it together at work but don't want to go home either and see the look on my husband's face. I really thought I was ok. I mean obviously I wanted it to work but I thought I could handle it if it didn't but I just feel like I've let my husband and daughter down and that's it there is no money for any more tries. I don't even know what to do. Don't want to be here but don't want to go home either.

[Niki_B]

Hey hun I'm really sorry for your BFN 😢 In saying that maybe 10 days is a bit early for a wee test...my OTD is always 9dp5dt but it is always a blood test which is 100% accurate and picks up any trace of HCG. Maybe ask your clinic for a blood test? If not I guess test in a couple days and hope it changes 🤞🙏🤞💕 xxx

[KittyK in reply to Niki_B]

I thought so too but I don't even know. Will it really change in a few days? Why would they tell me to test in 10 days if it's not going to be right? Going a bit crazy to be honest and the stupid clinic is still not open so I am stressing out at work not knowing what to think xxx

[Niki_B in reply to KittyK]

I'm sorry hun the odds are it wont change but there is a slim chance it could. I'm really sorry I know how hard it is 😥💔 xxx

[Hidden]

When is your otd? Usually fet have longer waiting times for test. Also, tests do change one day to the next. Good luck x

[KittyK in reply to Hidden]

It was todaythey told me to test but it's only day 10? So now I'm not sure. Am I setting myself up for a fall or is it likely to be negative still? Clinic still not bloody open. So stressed out. Last time I tested at 10 days and it was positive but maybe that's because it was twins? I don't even know to be honest I just feel like these have been the longest 3+ hours of my life and I'm living in what ifsand maybes

[Hidden in reply to KittyK]

So sorry Kittyk. I guess the clinic are best to advise. Big hugs x

[Mozfan78]

Hi Hun, I’m 11dp5dt and today was my OTD got a BFN too, I’m devastated. I know exactly how you feel! Not sure what to do, I felt so sure it had worked. Calling my clinic at 9 to see what they suggest. Just feel so confused xx

[KittyK in reply to Mozfan78]

Same I was so sure it worked and as it's out last shot I feel gutted. I feel like I've let my husband and daughter down and I really don't think it will change with 2 days. I dunno feel numb. Hope you're ok do you have to test again in a few days too?

[Mozfan78 in reply to KittyK]

Sorry for your result hun, horrible. No, clinic just said that it’s a no and I’m going to to see when I might be able to try again. Sending love xxx

[Kat9lives]

I'm so sorry you have a BFN KittyK but like you say, 10 days doesn't sound long enough for a FET test. My OTD is 12dp5dt and is a blood test so I would be hesitant to stop any meds at this stage until you are absolutely sure. It's not about setting yourself up for a fall, but about not giving up unlesd you're absolutely sure. I've also heard that FETs take a little longer to show so I would push for a blood test or wait a bit longer. Hoping you get some good news lovely xxx

[Tugsgirl]

I’m sorry for your bfn. My otd has always been day 11 so not much difference in it. Ring your clinic and see what they suggest. I’m not sure why different clinics give different otds xx

[Kat9lives]

You absolutely have not let your husband or your daughter down... This isn't about you doing this by yourself, please don't put pressure on yourself. I'm sure your husband won't think you've let him down either... Besides... It's not over until it's over. The clinic said not to stop your meds yet so don't, and try your best to keep positive xxx