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Yet another hurdle… 😢 feeling deflated 😢

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Hi all.

Hope all is well.

I went to the clinic today for base scan before starting my FET next month and I’ve been told that the blockage in my tube has not subsided and I can no longer carry on with treatment until I have had my tube clipped.

I feel so upset and deflated. The waiting list is over 1 year on NHS and private want about £2500. So that’s extra on top of paying private for another FET. Do these people think we are made of money and it grows on trees. I wouldn’t mind but covid has made prices even more expensive.

I just feel this whole process sucks. 1st baby 2nd baby or 3rd makes no difference it hurts every time.

Sorry to offload but I’m so fed up and sick of being skint paying out money on IVF.

BUT I have to keep going. As I’m not one to give up.

xxx ❤️

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OurMiracleBabies

I understand that feeling too well. Hope it's works out for you

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Sunshine809

I'm really sorry to hear that. I'm with you on the cost - I'm finding it really difficult to put every spare penny into the ivf, especially when the cost of food and bills and everything else is increasing so rapidly! IVF is just soooo expensive, and they know we'll pay whatever it takes to get our miracle baby.

It's a brutal process and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. So many heartbreaks and disappointments. Wishing you the very best of luck xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Faith. Oh I am so sorry to hear this. Unfortunately it has happened, and best got rid of before carrying on. I do hope the wait is soon over and you can get going again. Thinking of you. Diane

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AuroraXen

Oh Faith I'm sorry. We just never know what twist or turn this process will throw at us next. I get genuine anxiety around these scans now... just the unknown, what might have gone wrong since last time. And I completely hear you on the money. It just becomes Monopoly money. Few hundred here, several thousand there, another couple of hundred for this and that. I'm on my 4th cycle now and need to stim for a few more days than expected... we also upped my dose a couple of days ago. And the drugs just cost the earth! I had to pay an extra £390 today for the extra meds 😱It all just has to go on our credit cards now, so stressful. Sending lots of love xx

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