So, as we are trying to start the FET cycle after my faile fresh we got denied to take out another small amount for a loan. We obviously haven't paid off much of the first loan of IVF but now we are stumped. We can't exhaust all of our cash. We need money for a rainy day and our debt is piling up from all the IVF associated tasks. I am losing hope and comfort in knowing what to do. I don't have time to just wait around. I feel like we are the only ones struggling financially in accomplishing paying for it all. It's overwhelming and to be honest, taking the fun and excitement of doing it again. I felt all those bad nightmarish feelings when my husband texted me saying we can't get approved for another small loan. Can I just start screaming and crying now? Someone please give me comfort in knowing we aren't alone and they are doing the impossible as well and draining everything they have to "try" at having a baby????