Test day today. BFN!!

[Helto200]

Another bloody negative. Talked myself into seeing another line there but pretty sure it's negative. What a gut wrenching blow!! Ugh!! 😫 in all honesty I had a feeling it was going to be negative, but you hope it's just self preservation. But there we are. Xx

[Kinney1]

I’m so sorry to hear this! I get it, I’ve been there many times. Take some time to yourself today, it sounds so cliche but self care is incredibly important during this absolute rollercoaster.

[Helto200 in reply to Kinney1]

Thank you for saying that. I kind of wish I could take the day off but we are so short staffed it's not even funny. But yes I will look after myself. Its so hard because we have been lucky with 1 success and we have a beautiful girl. But 3 failed transfers also , and it still feels awful. X

[DOCIreland]

Really sorry to hear💔 thinking of you . X

[Helto200]

Thanks hun. Appreciate it. We have 2 frosties still. So we will give it another go. It will take me a few days, but I'll be alright. Good luck with your adventure!! 🥰😊

[LiveandLetLive42]

I am so sorry!! You must be in a lot of pain. I have FET in a week and I am just so scared it won't work. This is such a hard journey! My heart goes out to you. XO

[Helto200]

Thank you so much. Its hard going... and none of my friends have ever been through it, so it's hard for them to understand. It's bitter sweet... because we have a 4 year old from our second transfer on our first cycle. But now its 2 more failed transfers and its just gut wrenching. I feel like we should be happy with what we have when so many women on here struggle, but when the choice is taken out of your hands... its so hard. Anyway.... Good luck with your transfer. Sending positive vibes your way 😘