BFN test day

[AJJ123]

Well, as the title says BFN on test day.

Woopie doo a few more grand down the toilet- lining the pockets of the clinic.

I’m not surprised, transfer was painful and bloody - totally different to last time.

The embryo was a crap grade too, I probably got fleeced on freezing that as most clinics would have disposed of it.

I’m so annoyed that it’s ended up like this. I’m not spending another penny as I have lost complete faith.

There’s nothing wrong with me or my eggs, it should have been a no brainer. Clearly things aren’t so simple.

I hate the world right now x

[SBeanbag]

It’s heartbreaking...hugs to you. Look after yourself x

[Kiedy84]

Oh hun I am sorry 😥 this is so hard look after yourself xxx

[LunaLovegood11]

I’m so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you xxx

[Dreams1982]

I'm sorry to hear hun x it's a cruel process we go through xx sending hugs xx

[Ajl46]

Very sorry to hear your cycle didn’t work- it’s so much time, effort and money. I recently had a failed FET with a hatching 5 day blastocyst of good grade and perfect lining etc - my consultant said implantation only occurs in about 35% of cases even when everything else is alright. So frustrating not to know why cycles don’t work. Makes you wonder how the human race survives at all! I found pampering/treating myself to the things I couldn’t have during the 2ww (coffee, wine, Brie!) helped a bit and meeting up with my friends helped a lot. Best wishes to you xxx

[AJJ123 in reply to Ajl46]

I shall do the same and treat myself tonight I think. Thank you - I’m going into work now no idea if I’ll bite someone’s head off today or burst into tears grrr xx

[Hidden]

I’m really sorry. Totally devastating for you 😢 I don’t know why it’s so hard for some of us to have a baby 😢 it’s crap hun. perhaps when things feel less raw take your concerns ie the issues with your transfer further with the clinic. Not an ideal start to 2WW. Sending lots of hugs xoxo

[AJJ123 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Jess, agreed not ideal. I think for now I’m gust going to try and enjoy my life. I’m not saying I’m giving up hope but I think I’m just going to let go xx

[Hidden in reply to AJJ123]

I don’t blame you one bit. TTC/ Fertility treatment is hard going. I think having a break from it all sounds a good idea. Put yourselves first & try to enjoy yourselves 🙂 Do all the things you can’t when TTC/ having fertility treatment 😏 Start again when you feel refreshed 🙂 xoxo

[Cinderella5]

Im sorry for your BFN! Ive transferred amazing embryos and still nothing happened, they were all pretty good in fairness and Ive only managed one recent pregnancy that resulted in miscarriage. Nothing is simple in any of this! Everyone that doesnt actually have to do IVF thinks its the answer to everything.....its clearly not for some of us! Do something nice for yourself, a reward for going through this shit! Big hugs.xx

[AJJ123 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you, I will. In a way although gutted I’m a bit relieved the whole tww is over as it was torture. Seeing as how ppl get bfp’s at 5,6,7 dpt and knowing all my tests were negative ... it seemed like forever xx