Failed FET

[Violet89]

Hi everyone,

I have just finished a FET cycle unfortunately the embryo didn't stick. I emailed the clinic to say this yesterday and had a call today asking to book in for a follow up appointment. I've been offered a call for the 29th July. Has anyone else had to wait 7 weeks for a follow up from a failed FET? I've not had a great experience with our clinic so I was just wondered what other peoples experiences have been?

Thank you in advance x

[Skittles11]

Hi there, I had to wait about 3 weeks for each of my reviews and even that I felt was too long! I really have no idea what the norm is... really sorry to hear your transfer was not successful

[Violet89 in reply to Skittles11]

Thank you for your reply x

[Millbanks]

Hi Violet, I'm sorry to hear this one didn't stick. Hope you're doing ok.Are you with the NHS? If so, this is normal. If you're private then I would say uncommon - normally 2 weeks xx

[Violet89 in reply to Millbanks]

Yes we are NHS, I did ask if it is because we are NHS and she said no but who knows! Thanks for your reply x

[Millbanks in reply to Violet89]

I did 2 cycles with the NHS and each time the follow up was ludicrously far away. I kept calling every week to see if they had any cancellations and ended up only waiting 3 weeks for one. You can try that xx

[Sunsetsnapper21]

We are private and our review is 5 weeks this time, 3 weeks last time. Seems a busy world in IVF clinics! Although we actually are ok with waiting a while to just let the dust settle and process things. Good luck x

[Bluedestiny]

I’ve asked something similar Violet I really think it is too long to wait. Our follow up from a failed cycle (no embryos) is 6 weeks I said I couldn’t wait that long, so they have given me one with a different consultant next week but it’s not ideal at all. Thinking of you, the whole process is so so tough xx

[Violet89 in reply to Bluedestiny]

I'm sorry to hear about your failed cycle, it is so tough. I agree it is far too long. I know i'm angry / upset / hormonal! I hope you get some answers xx

[Bluedestiny in reply to Violet89]

Honestly I feel your pain so much. Wishing you so much luck and sending love xx

[Daffodils140]

Hi,

I got my BFN on 7th June and I’m not speaking to the consultant until 27th July!! So a similar wait to yourself. I don’t mind too much as don’t want to try again unp til August as we have a few days away booked before that and I feel I need some time to relax before starting again. But if someone wanted to start the next month it would be annoying. Xx

[Daffodils140]

I should add that I could perhaps speak to a different consultant slightly earlier, but I want to speak to the person who did my trial transfer and actual real transfer.

[Jrss1]

Hi Violet89, I just read your post. I wanted to say how sorry I am that your embryo didn’t stick. I hope you are ok xxx