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Finally after 3years and 4 transfers.

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After so many years of failed ivf and miscarriage we have finally hit that 12 week mark. I never ever thought this was going to happen. Please never give up hope even when you think you’ve reached the end! I remember being sat at my kitchen table and a donor was going to be our next option, then we had one last attempt and ended up with 4 amazing blastocysts. ❤️ I just wanted to reach out and give every single one of you hope and comfort knowing your not on your own, my inbox is always open even if it’s just for an ivf hormonal rant.

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Millbanks

Congratulations lovely! I can imagine the emotion right now :) Hoping this next phase goes really smoothly for you xxx

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Kmcdon

Congratulations!

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Nala_01

Congratulations! So so happy for you xx

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi Beckyalf. Well he/she looks good to me! Nice white stron looing backbone and teeh in the jawline. Fingers crossed that your little one continues to grow and mature as he/she should. Lovely news. Diane

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Beckyalf in reply to DianeArnold

Thank you Diane, it’s been such a long hard struggle but hopefully 🙏🏼 this is it. X

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DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK in reply to Beckyalf

Hi. Oh I know you've been through so much. He's looking good to me so far. I say "he" as I seen to be getting loads of boys just now, with only one girl!!! Diane

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Hope_1234

Congratulations 🥰xx

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RhinoCat

Fab story 🥳💐👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Congratulations 🥰😘💐💐💐💐

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XxjustmexX

Congratulations xx

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Alwaysbelieving

Amazing congratulations 😁 xxx

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andromedae9

Congratulations! ❣️

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JoyfulStar

Congratulations! 🎉

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Cinderella5

Congratulations!!💗🤗xxx

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WeeJacs

Amazing congratulations, thank u for sharing. It really does give me hope. Can I ask did u or your clinic do anything differently? We have 1 frozen 3BC but with 2 MMC and 1BFN were thinking of additional testing before the last frozen then donor after that xx

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Beckyalf in reply to WeeJacs

Do you know what the only thing that we did differently was extra support from the progesterone I’ve been on pessarys and also injecting Lubion. We were getting to the point of pgc testing our embryos before transfer and also genetic testing ourselves but it’s just when’s the point to stop…. Ivf is a complete money pit and a list full of extras. I was also taking dhea and coq10 for a few months before this round and ended up with 4 really good blastocysts from 7 eggs retrieved. My opinion is it’s about quality not quantity of eggs, and also don’t compare yourself to others. That’s was my biggest downfall x

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WeeJacs in reply to Beckyalf

TY funny we tried DHEA on our last round and it gave us 5 that went to blast. Gearing up for our last attempt with my eggs, 1 3BC left so not very hopeful. Going for immune testing before transfer xxx

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ZiggyandBC

Huge congratulations!! ❤️❤️

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BECIO

Awwww lovely congratulations xx

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Luna_79

Aw congratulations x

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Fertilityjourney

Huge congratulations! Enjoy this special time. Xx

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Aga86

Congratulations! Such wonderful news! 😀

I am currently 6 weeks pregnant and waiting for my first scan. We’ve been ttc for over 4 years and had 4 cycles that ended with either a bfn or a miscarriage.

Your story gives me hope!❤️ Thank you! Xx

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Beckyalf in reply to Aga86

Stay strong you’ve got this ❤️

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Flossybubble

Wow congratulations!! I'm new on here and it's helping so much reading all these messages of everyone's journey, it's made me feel like I'm not alone.

I've just started the IVF path and have found out my qmh levels are so low at 2.5 and my folicle count is only 4 :( xx

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Pregnancy1984

Congrats x

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