Ah love - so sorry to hear that. It absolutely sucks.I don't have any experience of either clinic but it sounds like a good plan to move on - there's still a few tests left - would you consider PGS testing? I've seen a lot of BFPs on here recently (probably) due to PGS... sending lots of love xx
Thanks lovely. Both times we hd one blast and the second blst was always frozen last minute so number wise i never dream of pgs testing. Def something to consider. Hope you are ok xx
Thanks love. This is why im frustrated with my current clinic. I have autoimmune thyroid. I did my nk cells but biopsy didnt survive so might redo that one. I wanted immune protocol but clinic said no (covid time no steroids etc etc). That ideally is my next protocol x x u considered it??
Ah yes of course - I remember now (sorry my memory is rubbish). So my mum has an autoimmune disease and they say that if something is in the family then it could be likely that you have raised NK cells - so I didn't have the biopsy but I am going to have the blood test done. My clinic said that by the time we transfer next (likely June) it should be ok to use steroids - I'm very keen to give it a go. xx
Gutted to hear this, always cheerleading you from the sidelines.
I have been to a different Care and always really rated them but they were never keen to do additional tests/try new things.. could just be because I am so old and they have given up on me! It may be different with each clinic though. Really hope you find some answers and your rainbow baby xx
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Aww thanks. Its hard to get answers. That is one reason im looking to switch as my current clinic doesnt offer anything different. I practically begged for blood thinners and progesterone shots and didnt get it. Hope we both find our next step and our baby. Hang in there u kind soul. Xx
....I have no wise words for you right now as I am also experiencing difficult times but I am deeply saddened that it didn't work this time...This is so hard ππ₯ I am sending you my love and a big hug.... I understand what you feel ....π
Hi Ranchu. . Thanks! God knows u been through it. U know us being silly early testers. When i didnt get it 6dp i knew it! I pray from the bottom of my heart that the embies and u are doing well π€
So sorry to read this. I was with Create in Wilmslow, so msg me if you want. I moved on after a year, but then I'm a bit of a lost cause I think. Give yourself time, and be kind to yourself. Xxx
Thanks lovely. Ive seen your posts and i understand why u moved on. It makes sense and im willing to do that too. I just want to give it another shot with a different clinic first. Xx i will message you x
Definitely give it every shot you can. We got told from the start DE was our best chance, but we spent 3 years and god knows how much trying everything first. Xxx
Awh Mimisami π so sorry to read this π₯Ίπ£ππ’ sending huge hugs. Itβs the hardest journey ever . You are such a trooper πππ 4 transfers and all the parts of each journey must be so tough. Iβve done half of what you have and I feel punctured at times. Sending huge hugs of support. Hope you can take some time to digest this sad news before you find somewhere that better suits your needs πππ
It would be soo nice to catch a break isnt it. . Im sure there are many tougher journeys the girls had. It brings down the strongest im sure. Its a b*#*$!
Sorry to hear about your bfn, hope you find a new clinic and you finally get your bfp. I am with care fertility (not Manchester) but theyβve been great xx
Ahhh really sorry to hear that. It is bloody hard to regroup. Are you just not happy with the care that youβve been getting? If so, definitely right to rethink and look for a new clinic. Hopefully people in Manchester can give you some advice. Xx
So so sorry to be reading this lovely, its so unfair. I can really recommend care fertility, for us they really changed everything and the outcome was sooo much better than our previous clinic. Wishing you lots of luck for the future xxx
Thanks so much lovely for recommending. Im so glad it worked for you β€οΈ
So sorry to read this ! Sending you lots of love and well wishes, you are so strong and will pull through! Been through the same 3 times and its devastating, this forum is full of ladies who can truly relate and understand. Im in Leeds and only have one clinic to go to, with covid couldn't even to venture to manchester or sheffield! I feel u ! Xx
Oh no Iβm so sorry. This is such an unfair and difficult journey. Regrouping your thoughts and how to move forward must be so difficult. Iβm sending you lots of hugs. Xxx
So sorry I know this is an older post, but wanted to say im sorry your having a tough time, im hoping you are feeling a bit better now though. Your always so helpful to the ladies on here so just wanted to show my support and to say keeping you in my prayers IA.xx
I'm just catching up Mimisami as you know I've been 'away' for a while. Would you consider going abroad? You know my story. I've come to realise that my clinic are very good, their after care has been great too. The only part of my IVF I had in the uk was the ALICE and EMMA. Which Im sure played a part in success.
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