I've just had a failed FET and am feeling pretty sad after the result. My friends are so lovely, but none of them have gone through this 'journey' and so sometimes I find it hard to explain my feelings to them, does anyone else feel like this? Just wanted to see if anyone in a similar position would like to have a chat, I would love to have a moan and some mutual understanding if anyone wants to PM me. XX
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I am so sorry to hear this. Sending huge hugs. I had a failed FET last year and then a fresh bfp that unfortunately ended in mc. Now in the middle of another cycle. Always happy to have a chat. It can sometimes feel very lonely. Xx
Hi Ginny27, I just had a failed FET last week and now it’s the hard wait until the process can be started again. I know how you feel and how heartbreaking it is and also not having anyone around you that really understands. I’m here if you want a chat or even a good cry Xxx
Hi Ginny. I have also just had a failed FET (blood test was Monday) and am feeling incredibly sad and hopeless. I’ve taken some time off work to just gather my thoughts and recover. I also have some very supportive friends but like you say they can’t fully understand what we’re going through. I just want you to know that I’m here for you if you need a friend. xx
Hi Cargen, sorry to hear about your result! It’s heartbreaking. I’m also going through it right now and it’s very tough. I’m also here if you need a friend Xxx
So sorry for your failed FET 💔 I felt heartbroken after mine a few weeks back.. I cried it out, had a nice warm bubble bath and drank some wine. I also took a week off work to just process it all and get myself back into a better head space ready to plan my next cycle. Take lots of time for yourself, be kind to yourself. I’m here if you want to talk too 🤍💫
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