Just don't know whelter to cry for my dad's passing or my fet failure

[Sayusayme]

Just don't know whether to cry for my dad's passing or my fet failure

M numb,missing dad like crazy and I hate myself for not being there during his last few days due to my ivf cycle embryo transfer ...

And now look at this I have lost my dad and failed fet ....numb numb so numb

Gulity and numb....crazy feeling

Slept on my dad's bed after his passing

had nightmares ,I felt his suffering in his last few day....it was bad...

Today morning got my hcg report ,it's 2 and I have failed fet....ohhh

[Farrri]

O my God m really sorry for all...May his soul rest in peace... don't blame yourself This is tough time i can understand

[Lorita1984]

Im. So sorry. I wish i could confort you in some way but I cant. Life is really cruel at times. My hearth goes out to you dear. I wish you strength in this difficult time and wish you success in the future ❤️

[Georgie17]

It's a lot for you to be going through and I'm so sorry about your dad. Take the time to process both losses. Having gone through many failed attempts, it's so hard to get back to it and I can't imagine going through this and the loss of a loved one. Sending you lots of hugs. Xx

[Picalilli99]

I’m so sorry your FET hasn’t worked and of course for the loss of your father. Please do not feel guilty, please instead try to be kind to yourself if you can. You are going through so much right now, none of this heartache is your fault. Sending you love and hugs xxx

[Core]

I’m so sorry each of those things are so terrible to deal with I can’t imagine you having to deal with them both at once xx

[TravelNow]

Sorry about your loss. X

[SparkleCock]

Oh darling. I’m so sorry! My mother had a brain haemorrhage and I rationalised that would mean I’d get my baby. But life does not work to that fair schedule. It is random and beautiful and cruel. Can you see a grief counsellor? I hope you have lots of love and support around you at this tragic time xxx

[Elynn]

I am sooo sorry. Grieve your Dad and your situation. Such a rotten time for you. I promise you, , grief evolves, it just takes time. I still miss my Mum and Dad, it took a while but it doesn't hurt like stink anymore. Sending you love and hugs 💐

[Prayingforafamily]

I can’t even imagine what you are going through. Sending you love and strength xxx

[Keepingfaith85]

I'm so so sorry for your loss and hope you have lots of support around you right now. My mum died 2 years ago and I had grief councilling from Cruse Bereavement Care which I would really recommend when you feel ready. You don't have to get a gp referral you just ring them up and there's usually a few months waiting list. Guilt is part of the grieving process and it was the loneliest I've ever felt in my life. If you ever want to talk please feel free to message me. You will find that everyone deals with grief in their own way and I don't think people talk about it as much as they should. Sending you loads of hugs, please be kind to yourself, life is cruel but it will get easier to deal with. Take everything one day at a time xxxx

[Kiedy84]

Oh hun I am so terribly sorry for your loss, this is difficult tine, I hope you have supportive family and friends around you xx

[mimisquiz77]

I am very sorry to hear you are going through a tough time at the minute. Life is so cruel sometimes. I hope you are surrounded with friends and family. Please don’t blame yourself. You have done nothing wrong. Ifv is Such a lottery. Take care. Sending you a big hug xxx

[Skippy1982]

So sorry for the loss of your dad and such cruel timing with finding out your FET has not worked too. 😭can’t imagine the pain you must be in right now. Cry for both and do not feel guilty. Sending you love and hugs at this horrendously difficult time xxx