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Disappointing after spending more $$$$.

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Starts my fertility journey on September 2020 and I have to go through alot. They told us I got 2 healthy embryos but I need to deal with cleaning my uterus in that way it will gives me positive results.

So December I went for hysteroscopy and it was successful. So they booked me for Embryo transfer on Jan 29th oh Lord finally.

Before my transfer I have asked them heaps of time is it gonna be a big positive and they said should be fine coz everything is sounds perfect.

Neck minute:( on monday 8th oh Lord I went for my 1st blood test knowing that nothing to worry about anything.

But sadly until i texted them after 1pm and i received a phone call telling me it's a NEGATIVE! that was the worst news and so disappointing and it's like a piece of cake to them telling me oh its Negative and I was like OmG but I do have symptoms. And that's it no explanation why or what so ever. They said I have to book for a doctor appointment if I want to discuss more. So so sad.

Still tryna cope with it I'm so hurt and disappointed.

Anyways hope your thoughts and prayers will help.

Regards ,

Disappointing patients.

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Yellowbellow1212

I understand your frustration when everyone keeps telling you your embryos look perfect and uterus is fine , it still doesn't work. I had a transfer done in december and it didnt work and they were very optimistic because I don't have any issue really its my partner. However you have to keep in mind and the doctor usually tells you this, that the implantation is still something that is mysterious and they have little control over it (even with medication) and its up to luck . Success rate for ivf is 25 to 30 % even in healthy cases. You have to keep hoping and be strong.

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Mikeml19 in reply to Yellowbellow1212

Awww thank you! Wish you all the best as well

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Daughterofaking

So sorry to hear this. I pray that your next transfer would be a testimony. Be strong and carry on. Its really a mysterious journey but we shall all get there its a matter of time. All the best.

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Mikeml19 in reply to Daughterofaking

Thank you so much!

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