BFN: Our test day was today and sadly... - Fertility Network UK

Fertility Network UK

56,477 members59,790 posts

BFN

Roxylife profile image
14 Replies

Our test day was today and sadly it was negative. I had a feeling it was going to be, just an instinct I guess. Follow up appointment with doctor in a couple weeks and hopefully he’ll shed some light on our results and if we can do better next time somehow. I’m staying positive for this journey for now, what more can I do than that xx thinking of all you girls on your journey and wishing you the best news soon xx

Written by
Roxylife profile image
Roxylife
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
14 Replies
EmyTW profile image
EmyTW

Didn't want to read and run, but just to say I am really sorry to hear about this. This is such a tough journey. Wishing you all the best for your next cycle. xx

Roxylife profile image
Roxylife in reply toEmyTW

Thanks so much x

XOXO13 profile image
XOXO13

So sorry 💔

I’m pleased to hear you’re remaining positive though, that’s great to hear and I hope your follow up provides you with reassurances for your next cycle.

Big hugs xx

Roxylife profile image
Roxylife in reply toXOXO13

Thanks xx

Millbanks profile image
Millbanks

So sorry to hear this. The good news is that there are lots of things that can be looked in to - things can be tweaked here and there. I love that you are staying positive - it's so important - but do give yourself time to feel crap. Take care xx

Roxylife profile image
Roxylife in reply toMillbanks

Thanks so much xx

Annjali profile image
Annjali

Sorry to hear this, sending you hugs. Let yourself be upset when you need to ( I found that helped with 4 failed cycles) but be positive for when you get the feedback, push for answers to your questions and advice on how things can be done differently.

Try and stay positive.

Roxylife profile image
Roxylife in reply toAnnjali

Thanks for the advice x

Hope_1234 profile image
Hope_1234

Im very sorry to hear this 💔 wishing the best of luck with your next cycle 🙏xxx

Roxylife profile image
Roxylife in reply toHope_1234

Thank you ❤️

PenguinBlue profile image
PenguinBlue

I’m so sorry to hear - it’s always a devastating moment. Being positive is great - hopeYou’re able to get the answers you need for a positive cycle soon. Xxx

Roxylife profile image
Roxylife in reply toPenguinBlue

Many thanks xx

Twixy22 profile image
Twixy22

Hi Roxy, I'm currently in my 2ww and my second FET. I am feeling the same as you were, an instinct, just feel like my period is going to start and had practically identical syptoms last time I had my transfer.

Keep positive, I'm so grateful at that IVF exists as it gives me a chance.

Your time will come, Lots of love 💜

Roxylife profile image
Roxylife in reply toTwixy22

Hi Twixy. Thanks for replying Hun. Stay positive for your journey and please let me know how you get on! How many days post transfer are you? Xx

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

BFN 😢💔

That’s our second cycle officially over with another BFN 😢 heartbreaking journey 💔 got one more...
gemmy999 profile image

BFN 😢

I knew it hadn't worked In my heart that's why I was trying to do a test yesterday . Absolutely...

OTD - BFN 😢

Oh well.... We had 2 transferred and I knew that was never really a good start. My husband is...
Jaygee profile image

BFN 😢😢😢 devastated

Tested 1 day early , purely because I just knew in my heart what the answer was going to be as I...

OTD 13dp5dt BFN

I tested yesterday as I wanted the weekend to process things. I was sure it hadn’t worked, and I...
Wrighty82 profile image

Moderation team

See all
Claire_FNUK profile image
Claire_FNUKAdministrator
JA-fnuk profile image
JA-fnukPartner

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.