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Our test day was today and sadly it was negative. I had a feeling it was going to be, just an instinct I guess. Follow up appointment with doctor in a couple weeks and hopefully he’ll shed some light on our results and if we can do better next time somehow. I’m staying positive for this journey for now, what more can I do than that xx thinking of all you girls on your journey and wishing you the best news soon xx

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EmyTW

Didn't want to read and run, but just to say I am really sorry to hear about this. This is such a tough journey. Wishing you all the best for your next cycle. xx

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Roxylife in reply to EmyTW

Thanks so much x

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XOXO13

So sorry 💔

I’m pleased to hear you’re remaining positive though, that’s great to hear and I hope your follow up provides you with reassurances for your next cycle.

Big hugs xx

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Roxylife in reply to XOXO13

Thanks xx

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Millbanks

So sorry to hear this. The good news is that there are lots of things that can be looked in to - things can be tweaked here and there. I love that you are staying positive - it's so important - but do give yourself time to feel crap. Take care xx

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Roxylife in reply to Millbanks

Thanks so much xx

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Annjali

Sorry to hear this, sending you hugs. Let yourself be upset when you need to ( I found that helped with 4 failed cycles) but be positive for when you get the feedback, push for answers to your questions and advice on how things can be done differently.

Try and stay positive.

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Roxylife in reply to Annjali

Thanks for the advice x

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Hope_1234

Im very sorry to hear this 💔 wishing the best of luck with your next cycle 🙏xxx

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Roxylife in reply to Hope_1234

Thank you ❤️

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PenguinBlue

I’m so sorry to hear - it’s always a devastating moment. Being positive is great - hopeYou’re able to get the answers you need for a positive cycle soon. Xxx

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Roxylife in reply to PenguinBlue

Many thanks xx

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Twixy22

Hi Roxy, I'm currently in my 2ww and my second FET. I am feeling the same as you were, an instinct, just feel like my period is going to start and had practically identical syptoms last time I had my transfer.

Keep positive, I'm so grateful at that IVF exists as it gives me a chance.

Your time will come, Lots of love 💜

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Roxylife in reply to Twixy22

Hi Twixy. Thanks for replying Hun. Stay positive for your journey and please let me know how you get on! How many days post transfer are you? Xx

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