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Hi guys,

I was due at hospital tomorrow to start injections for iui treatment. Got a phone call today to say appointments have been cancelled due to covid. This is the second time I was due to start 😢

Has anyone else had appointments cancelled.

Lisa

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Sunshine809

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear that! You must be so disappointed 😥 My hospital said they have no plans to stop unless they are told that they have to, but I'm in the middle of taking the drugs so I don't know if that applies to people who haven't started yet. I really hope you're able to get going again very soon xx

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Lisa198855 in reply to Sunshine809

I'm absolutely gutted 😢 As far as I know it's came from above my clinic. I think you will be fine as you have started drugs but I've only been on nasal and was due to start drugs tomorrow xx

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Sunshine809 in reply to Lisa198855

Aww I'm sorry ☹ I'm really hoping I can keep going but no guarantees at this stage I guess xx

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Melonay1987

Hi Lisa.I'm so sorry to hear this. Were you due to start down regulation tomorrow or stims? Xx

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Lisa198855 in reply to Melonay1987

I was due to start stims tomorrow. I've been on nasal spray for last 3 weeks. Absolutely gutted 😢 They said I have to keep checking the nhsgcc website for updates. Xx

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Melonay1987 in reply to Lisa198855

Oh no, how awful, I didnt think they'd cancel people who have already started some sort of medication. Are you at a NHS clinic in England? Xx

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Melonay1987 in reply to Melonay1987

Sorry just googled and seen thats Glasgow. Xx

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Lisa198855 in reply to Melonay1987

I'm at a nhs clinic in Scotland. It might be different down in England. Different rules. That's what I thought - I know i hadn't started injections yet but was still on some kind of medication. This happened last March too. We were just about to start and it got cancelled 🤦🏻‍♀️ xx

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LizzieBW in reply to Lisa198855

Yes, me! I have been cancelled from NHSGGC too. Also my second time being cancelled 😭 devastating x

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Lisa198855 in reply to LizzieBW

It's so tough. Are you doing iui or ivf? Did they tell you there was a meeting tomorrow morning? Xx

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LizzieBW in reply to Lisa198855

IVF, fresh cycle. I was also due to start late March 2020 & was cancelled then this time around I was 2 weeks away from starting my IVF meds 😢 I think from what I've seen online there are quite a lot of women at our stage being cancelled for fresh cycles. Like yourself, I'm so upset. I didn't know there was a meeting tomorrow. Any ideas what for/what they'll be discussing specifically? Xx

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Lisa198855 in reply to LizzieBW

It's so devasting! My appointment was tomorrow afternoon 😭 Yea I think there are alot of woman being cancelled. No idea I think it's just a meeting about the next step because of covid but I'm just guessing that. The nurse just said to keep an eye on the website for updates xx

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LizzieBW in reply to Lisa198855

It's so disheartening & I have the fear they will keep the updates ambiguous to protect themselves like "for a temporary period of time" or similar. I could defo cope with 2 months delay, for example but if we're talking a huge delay again, I just dread to think how all of these patients (including us) will cope 😢

If you see or hear of any updates would you mind PMing me, please? And I'll do the same for you. Hope you're coping okay through this uncertainty. Xx

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Lisa198855 in reply to LizzieBW

Yes of course I will. And yea if you hear anything please keep me updated.

Getting there - feeling fed up and gutted. Hope you are coping ok and if you need a chat just pm me xxx

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PurplePiggie

So sorry for you, sending lots of love and hugs 😘 xx

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Aga86

So sorry for you❤️ That’s so not fair.

On Friday I received an automated email message from the app (We are waiting for a pre-FET video appointment) saying that the appointment had been ‘cancelled due to: error’. First I thought ‘Covid again’ but it seemed strange to me because I was booked on the previous day.

I emailed my hospital (Bart’s) and they said that they will let me know on Monday (today) but it is probably due to the fact that they are moving platforms.

London is the most affected with the pandemic now so I won’t be surprised if I receive a phone call todays saying that my cycle has been cancelled :/

I hope the will vaccinate everyone quickly so that we can all just get on with our lives❤️

Sending lots of love and hugs!❤️😘

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Lisa198855 in reply to Aga86

I hope everything goes well for you and you get good news today that it is not cancelled! Me too - This is going on to long now 😢

Sending hugs ❤️

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Goldchanel88 in reply to Aga86

I am also with St Barts and they have cancelled my appointments for IVF since last year.

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Aga86 in reply to Goldchanel88

So sorry to hear that❤️I had mine cancelled last year too.They just confirmed that the appointment is still booked and that all is ok. Hopefully it will stay that way until the transfer.

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Marnsb

Everyone has been cancelled in Northern Ireland too, fertility services are not seen as a front line service so the clinic is closed and staff redeployed to hospital/covid wards. Happened to me last March, managed then to get one failed treatment before Christmas but now ive no idea when I'm going to get review apts for my frozen one... Hopefully it won't be for too long, if people would just stay home and keep covid numbers down this wouldn't keep happening...so frustrating....don't lose hope x

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Lisa198855 in reply to Marnsb

As far as I'm aware our clinic is still open but just not starting any new treatments 😢 I was the same cancelled last March and was just getting round to our first one tomorrow.

Fingers crossed for you that you don't wait to long 🤞 I agree people need to do as they are asked and hopefully we can all get on with our lives soon.

Sending hugs ❤️

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Peanutchips

Oh Lisa, I’m so sorry. It’s heartbreaking when you’ve been waiting so long and started the drugs. I had an NHS frozen embryo transfer cancelled during first lockdown so totally get how you feel. Sending big hugs xxx

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Lisa198855 in reply to Peanutchips

Thank you! This is our second time of being cancelled 😢

Hope your journey is going well now ❤️

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Peanutchips in reply to Lisa198855

Oh lovely. I’m so sorry, it’s rubbish. Is going to a private clinic an option at all for you? I don’t know about up in Scotland but they’re open in England xx

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try2020

We are also with the Glasgow NHS clinic and I have been wondering when this might happen 😞 we are meant to be doing IVF in March/April with pgt-a and we were meant to have been given a date by now, wonder how far back we will get pushed, so sorry for everyone about to start or already had, it's just so bloody awful 🧡

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Lisa198855 in reply to try2020

Hopefully it's only a minor push back and things get up and running again soon! Fingers crossed you are ok and not affected to much.

I will keep you posted if I hear anything else. They have said to keep an eye on their website for updates xx

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try2020 in reply to Lisa198855

Thanks and same to you 🧡 for it to happen twice really is brutal x

So sorry to hear this ☹️ its hard having a long wait and even worse that they cancelled the day before ! Hope you get to start again soon. Take care xx

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Lisa198855 in reply to

Thank you! Me too 😔 xx

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Sunflower_12

I’m so sorry to hear this, it’s so disappointing and upsetting. I’m Scotland too but Edinburgh I’m due to start my second cycle this week I wonder if I’ll get the same call. We had our first one cancelled in March last year was an awful time the whole not knowing. I hope it’s not as long this time and people staying in reduces the numbers in NHS beds.

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Prankypr

Mine was cancelled last week - I am a private patient at a clinic attached to a NHS hospital. It’s soo upsetting :(

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Prankypr in reply to Prankypr

It’s been a painful last year for us. First our cycle got cancelled in March with the clinic closing for COVID, then my husband tested positive before egg collection in July and the cycle was cancelled (probs a false positive as we didn’t have any symptoms or antibodies ), I got pregnant on the next cycle but I miscarried at 8 weeks. We were keen to start last week as I have low AMH and am 36 but was cancelled again.

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Lisa198855 in reply to Prankypr

Aw gosh I'm so sorry to hear what you have been going through. Fingers crossed appointments aren't going to be stopped for to long and we can all have a happy ending 🤞 It's so difficult when you are hyped up to go and then it can just be stopped.

Drop me a pm anytime you feel like a chat - Seems to make it a wee bit easier knowing someone kinda understands what your going through.

Sending hugs ❤️

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butterfliez

Hi sorry to hear all that have been cancelled it’s such a tough time for fertility treatments during covid I feel for everyone in this situation , this happend to me last year I managed to have all done in March but had to freeze , then when had our fet booked the embryo didn’t survive the thaw .... ended as a failed . was waiting ages to start second cycle I’m currently on the down reg injections for cycle 2 , I fear that they will cancel mine soon not due to go in for scan until end of January. I’m dreading the call. It’s so hard all the waiting involved & now again this year seems like it’s happening all over again

I know it’s so tough for the nhs & completely understand if they cancel but it doesn’t make it anymore less upsetting .

Hope everyone isn’t waiting too long this time x

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Lisa198855 in reply to butterfliez

So sorry to hear what's been happening with you. Its so tough 😔 I honestly don't know what's going to get cancelled and what will go ahead but I have everything crossed for you xx

Please keep us updated on your journey ❤️

Hi Lisa sorry to hear this, my clinic is closed aswell, it's so upsetting when this happens, not once but twice, I hope this is to indicate better things are to come for you, stay strong and keep your mind occupied 💖💖x

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Lisa198855 in reply to

Thank you so much for your kind message ❤️

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lnf17

Hi, I’m so sorry this has happened to you. I’m due to start my nasal spray next month via Dundee ACU. I haven’t heard anything about cancellations yet. IVF is stressful but the added addition of COVID is making it so much harder. I hope u get better news soon xx

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Lisa198855 in reply to lnf17

Thank you! I thought the fact I was on nasal meant I had started treatment but I've still been cancelled . Fingers crossed everything goes well for you. Yes u are right - covid is making it tougher xxx

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lnf17 in reply to Lisa198855

💗💗

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try2020

Hi Lisa, I got a call last night explaining that the cancellations are only for egg retrievals as they are not going to do any anaesthetics. Just in Glasgow too, everywhere else in Scotland is running as normal, and all other transfers etc going ahead in Glasgow. Hopefully they don't delay too long 🧡

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