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There is nothing I can do from now on right? I think it's a BFN already 😢

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Hello beautiful people.

So this TWW has driven me crazy. My plan was to wait atleast 10dp5dt to test, but i can do nothing other that reading and watching people's experiences, I cannot do my works (very unproductive I became).

So today 8dp5dt I decided let me just do it and Relieve my self from the stress. First thing in the morning I tested with a first response and nothing, not even a super thin line😭. I think it means I'm out right? My Beta is until 4th Jan. But I cannot see even a thinnest line at 8dpt, I think I shouldn't continue torturing myself with a false hope right?

I didn't even tell Hubby about, that I tested. I'm so scared now, I lost all my confidence and energy on this whole IVF journey already. I'm so heart broken 💔😭

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MeliWeb

Hello,

I think you tested too early...so keep your hopes up. I was not allowed to test until 12 days after the transfer and I could not use a regular test I had to have the blood test done as the doctor said the other one normally could give a false negative. So PLEASE stay positive it may have just been a false negative as your pregnancy hormone could be too small to detect. So cheer up... its not over still!

Sending you all my support I know this journey is really hard and so much waiting makes us anxious.

Stay strong.

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FutureMommy in reply to MeliWeb

Thank you so much for responding Meli. İ really hoped I could wait, but it was out of my control 😅. But atleast now I could prepare my mind with the possibility of either of the outcomes. I don't think I could help it even if my clinic tell me not to🤦🏼‍♀️..I really appreciate Xoxo ❤️

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LuxFleur

It's totally normal to be losing it. I'm also 8dpt. If you can, just chalk the test up to a glitch and test as scheduled on the 4th. That's my OTD as well. Sending you baby dust xoxo

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FutureMommy in reply to LuxFleur

Thank you luxfleur 🤗. Wish you a BFP Xoxo🤞. Sure, the experience isn't funny at all, but hopefully it will be all worth it in the end. ❤️ Baby dust to you too🤞

you have plenty of days left! Don’t loose hope, it’s hard to stay positive. I’ve had it tough through this 2WW but there’s really nothing we can do to bring the day closer. My OTD is Jan 4th also, i am 8dp5dt today and I’m a mess!!!

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Thank you Xoxo❤️ yes I will try not to test again until OTD. Wish you a massive positive with everything crossed 🤞

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sunset212

It may be a little late implanting depending on the stage of expansion. With my son who was hatching i did get a positive just 5 days after transfer but i know that is super early and not the norm. I think 10 days is the average time asked to wait by clinics. Don't count yourself out yet,. wishing you all the luck in the world x x

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FutureMommy in reply to sunset212

Thank you lovely ❤️. wow! How lucky. For me, I still have sensitive boobs and nausea. So still hoping for a positive outcome, that it's not just with the pissaries. Baby dust to us all🤞🤗

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