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Just tested negative after final frozen embryo transfer. Been trying since summer 2011....just after we got married. After 3 miscarriages, 5 rounds of ivf and 1 laparoscopy (finally resulting in endometriosis diagnosis) we can take no more. The physical and emotional effects have taken their toll.

What I did want to say is a huge thank you to this community. Your support and love has helped through the good and bad times. To those still on your journeys best of luck 🀞 You guys are fabulous and I will never forget that ❀

To our seven embryos that never were I love you more than you will ever know x

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Lily4yrttc

You are fabulous MJD.

There comes a point when it’s right to say that is enough of this uneven path, and take a new one. Thats is a very strong thing to do.

Happiness comes in many forms.

😘

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LizzieBW

Hi MJD,

Your post was a very emotive read so I can't begin to imagine how you're feeling right now. You are incredibly kind to thank all the women who helped you here over the years & I just wanted to wish you good fortune in whatever path you choose next xx

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LisaBeatrix1980

Oh I am so sorry to hear this, but so amazed and inspired by your attitude and this post, you are a real inspiration. I wish you all the luck in the world, and sending you all the love and kindness you have shared on this post xx

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Miracolo2

Hi, really sorry. I know how you feel. It's over for us as well unfortunately. My period has just started and my ODT is tomorrow.

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MJD1712 in reply to Miracolo2

I am so sorry to hear this. It doesn't get easier does it?! And thank you for sharing xxxx

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CharlieW1985

What an emotive read your post is... You are incredibly brave and strong lady. Ivf does take its toll mentally and physically. Best of luck to the both of you in whatever your journey holds for you both πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€— and ❀️❀️ to you xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

A true inspiration you are my love. I'm so sorry things didn't work out the way you wanted. Take good care of each other you've been through a hell of a ride, enjoy one another and whatever your journey holds now i wish you best. Sending lots of love and hugs πŸ’—πŸ˜˜

I am so sorry for all of your losses. I am just behind you with similar experiences. I am in awe of your courage and your ability to say enough is enough... so much strength. Wishing you masses of luck and happiness in coming years x

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RhinoCat

Awh bless you wee pet πŸ˜³πŸ˜˜πŸ˜’πŸ˜”πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’ you will never look back and say β€˜ I wish we’d tried ivf’ because boy did you try .... sending hugs πŸ€— tough times

Stand down brave soldier πŸ˜”πŸ˜˜πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’

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Mara84

Your post made me so emotional, I’m so sorry for everything that you been through in this journey, best of luck to you both.

❀️

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MJD1712

Your messages.....have had me in tears. I don't feel very strong right now but your messages are helping.....you guys are amazing. And I do sincerely thank you all and wish only good things to you all πŸ™πŸ’•β€

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