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End of the line😭

Not posted before.

3rd DE transfer. OTD test is tomorrow but did hpt today and it's negative. So disappointed.

Did fertility treatment years ago without success. Applied to adopt and we were turned down. Won't go into detail but totally unfair decision. Took a lot out of us.

1st DE transfer failed, 2nd ended in miscarriage and looks like this is also a fail.

I will retest tomorrow but not hopeful. This is really the end of the line as there are no more frosties left.

I must be gentle to myself. I must remember all the good things in my life.

Good luck to all ladies and wishing you all success and positive results.

Thanks for reading and any tips for getting through would be appreciated.

xx

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I'm so very sorry. I can't think of the right words. Thinking of you x

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Very kind of you to reply.

Thank you xx

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Hi,

I'm sorry you are going through all of this! It's a lot to take.

I've not been in the same position but like you said, you do need to be gentle to yourself. Take time to process it and do whatever you need to.

Sending prayers and love xx

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Thank you so much.

Xx

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Im so sorry! Thinking of you!xx

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Appreciated xx

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I'm so sorry I'm out too this morning. It's soo difficult but we can do this. One day it'll be our turn xxx

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Thank you.

Hope you have your turn soon xx

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So sorry to read this. Sending you massive hugs and best wishes for your next try xx

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Thank you xx

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Hi there, am so sorry to read your post. BFN’s are truly rubbish.

Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

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Thank you xx

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I’m so sorry to read this. I hope in time you will find peace and happiness. You gave it your very best shot xx

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Thank you for your kind words. Hoping your time comes very soon.

Stay strong x

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I really feel for you reading this post, and can relate in some way, as we have looked at adoption but think there will be issues and got to wait till my husbands had major surgery before we can even apply, so currently going to the DE route too. I really don't know what to advise other than if every option is a no for us then I'm going to make sure me and hubby have some damn good holidays over the years and just do all the things we want to. Still not want we really want but helps ease the pain a little. Sending you a huge hug xx

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Thanks for sharing. It helps. Wishing you success in DE route.

xx

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I'm really sorry to hear your news xx

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I’m so sorry to hear this Enaj51, BFN’s are cruel and so is this entire process. I’m so sorry, be kind to yourself xx

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Thanks.

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I'm so sorry you are going through this, maybe in a few years you can try and adopt again. I know people who have gone through years of trying to get pregnant with no joy and they have gone on to live fulfilled lives, not the lives they thought they'd have, but still happy lives. Maybe you should consider some counselling to help you get through this heartbreaking time. Xxx

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Maybe counselling will give me a chance to heal and find fulfilment and my new life path. Thank you for the suggestion. I am not ready to be defeated yet!

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Sending you a big hug hon xx

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xx

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Sorry to hear that you've had such a rough ride. Take some time out and try to relax. Best of luck for the future.xx

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