Just thought I'd update. We have had a big week, with a local adoption info evening on Thursday, geneticist appointment on Friday and the alternative families show on Saturday!
The geneticist has agreed to refer us for nhs PGD, so we are waiting to make the next consultant appointment to get started with that.
The local authority adoption service seem amazing, and were very positive about something called "foster for adopt" which would give us a chance at adopting a newborn.
Finally, a wonderful couple of people from other adoption agencies spoke to us at the alternative families show and my hubbie says he is finally beginning to get his head around the good things adoption could bring (I've always been quite pro-adoption- I feel like we could make an amazing difference to a child's life).
So we have a plan. One more go at ivf, using PGD but knowing that we have a slim-to-none chance of it working. Frankly, if it wasn't funded I'm pretty sure we wouldn't think it was worth it... PGD costs around £11000 per cycle... you want decent odds for that!
Then, we will start looking at adoption for real. I know we need a break between the end of ivf and the start of registering for adoption, but as hubbie started a new job today, we probably want to have a bit of time anyway before we start the intrusive process of weekly social worker visits!
So, there you have it. We've got a plan. And plans always make you feel more positive. I won't lie, I was still knocked for six by a birth announcement on Facebook earlier this evening (married three months after us... it's their second... ouch, I'm jealous!) but I just keep reminding myself that there is a child or children for us at the end if this journey, and we will be better parents as we have developed resilience to life's knocks along the way.
So that's where we are up to. Thanks for reading my long message!