Veteran IVFers

[recidwen]

Hey there

Any ladies out there with three failed transfers and up transferring late July? I have my fifth transfer scheduled Thursday and looking to share with/support other ladies who have also been through the ringer ivf-wise? Xxxx

[Kseye]

It is an emotional rollercoaster and every cycle brings its own challenges. I have just had my fourth transfer and my first proper transfer. Due out first scan on Tuesday. Hope this is your time too. Good luck.

[recidwen in reply to Kseye]

So you are in the 2ww?! What do you mean your ‘first proper transfer’? Lottssssss of luck to you xxx

[Kseye in reply to recidwen]

Oh sorry, autocorrect. That should be first proper positive. I’ve had chemicals before but this one is sticking for now 🤞

[recidwen in reply to Kseye]

ohhhhh woooo That is one autocorrect. What amazing news! Congratulations. I had my first chemical last cycle, which was my first ever bfp. Reallllllly praying we don’t go back to bfn. Xx

[Kseye in reply to recidwen]

It’s such a torture having a chemical after going through so much. In hindsight now I should have known our chemical wasn’t going to last as the HCG numbers were so low but I held onto hope. This time is so different. But I’m still so nervous about the scan tomorrow. Until I see a heartbeat I can’t relax or believe in it properly 🤦🏻‍♀️

[F_J_762301]

Hi , im not currently due to have a transfer unfortunately. I am however going through a mock cycle for era testing. Multiple failed transfers behing me also! Just wanted to wish you the best. Its awful having so many setbacks sometimes i wonder how i have got through it all. Good luck xx

[recidwen in reply to F_J_762301]

Oh you are doing the ERA. I considered it but money is really tight for us right now. Is it the whole shebang of a long cycle or a short cycle? I hope you get some answers! Xxx

[F_J_762301 in reply to recidwen]

Yes im on buserelin at the moment doing long protocol, strange to me as i have always done short previously! Xx

[ttcemmie]

I'll be on my fifth cycle, but not until next month. Best wishes for this cycle. Keep us updated. x

[recidwen in reply to ttcemmie]

ahhhhh you’ll be started in no time. The wait is a killlerrrrr. Thanks for you support. Will let you all know. Cxx

[Georgie17]

It’s a tough journey and I feel your pain. I am currently in a FET cycle due to transfer at the end of the week if my scan goes to plan tomorrow. This will be my 8th transfer. Keep positive as each attempt is different and I live in hope that we will get there. Here for support so feel free to keep in touch xx

[recidwen in reply to Georgie17]

Morning Georgie! We will be in the 2ww together. Thanks for reminding to me think about as each transfer as new potential. It is definitely hard to feel hopeful after so many failures. What protocol are you on? What will be new for you this time? Xxx

[Georgie17 in reply to recidwen]

I am on progynova and will start prontogest if scan goes well with my lining..... everything will be the same but without steroids which we can't have due to covid. I did get pregnant on my last attempt and carried the baby to 18 weeks but miscarried so the ivf part did work and fingers crossed it will again one day. It's just so hard but I am the ever optimist . Good luck and I will keep an eye on your progress xx

[recidwen in reply to Georgie17]

I am so sorry Georgie. I can only imagine how heartbreaking that was. You are an inspiration. I would keep you updated and via versa please! Xxxx

[recidwen in reply to Georgie17]

Did your scan go ok Georgie?

[Georgie17 in reply to recidwen]

Hi, lining is looking good and I am scheduled to transfer on Tuesday 4th so I’ll be joining you in the 2 week wait soon. Good luck tomorrow xx

[recidwen in reply to Georgie17]

Perfect!!!! Okkkkkk I’ll see you on the other side. Hahaha huzzaahhhhh xxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Georgie17]

Wishing you all the luck in the world Georgie!!xxx

[Georgie17 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thanks cinderella. I was reading your update and its a pain when that happens. Mine was also late and I put it down to stress. Won't be long till you get started. We deserve our babies after all we've been through. Xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Georgie17]

Yes, it's not half however not a lot we can do about our daft bodies!! Just keep thinking there has to be some kind of nice ending out there for us!!🤞🏻xxx

[Cinderella5]

Hey, just wanted to wish you loads of luck. I was scheduled for end of July but AF messed it up so having to postpone till end of Aug. All the best.🤞🏻🤞🏻xxx

[recidwen in reply to Cinderella5]

Oh Cinders! More bloody delay. I hope everything goes smoothly for August. I will of course be following along. Xxxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to recidwen]

Ha ha ha just typical my body!!😂🤦🏼‍♀️ Will see how it goes. Hopefully there is some good news out there for us soon!xxx

[recidwen in reply to Cinderella5]

There has go to be, right?! Don’t know what I did in a past life to get served this BS. Lol. Xxxz

[Cinderella5 in reply to recidwen]

You'd think so eh?!🤞🏻 Snap, I often wonder the same!!🤣🤗😘xxx

[recidwen]

Ladies, I am struggling. 6dp5dt today and woke up in a funk. Feeling sad and angry. I just can’t understand how this works for some people FIRST TIME.

I just can’t believe I am here, still fighting.

Feeling pretty convinced it hasn’t worked again and I know I will survive because I do every time, but I don’t need anymore life lessons from this shit. I need to be pregnant!

Eurgh, don’t even know why I am here ranting but I needed to get it out. Lord, help us. This is exhausting. Xxxx