Stronger bleeding with pain - went to the ER (i hope never again...)

[Jane_30]

Hello ladies,

yesterday i've noticed some fresh blood (with mucus) on my pad liner - even I'm bleeding since forever (joke 😉🤷‍♀️) - yesterday there was also a constant pain in my lower abdomen...

However, went to the ER, the took me blood, urin, did the scan...

Doctor didn't find the cause of bleeding.. he said "you're young, helthy, if this pragnany won't work, there will be another one" - WTF?! (sorry ladies), on the scan I saw sac, but without baby - so far... he also said "maybe there is a sign of a baby, i cannot tell for sure" he gave me a syrup (for low haenoglobin), and order to stay in bed, until I have an appointment with my doc. (in wednsday...)

However, I hope you'll never have that kind of experience with doctors.. (rude, shameless,..).

Just want to share my little trip to ER with you ☺️

Have a nice day ladies 🍀🍀

[Hidden]

The attitude of some Doctors is absolutely shocking! Why on earth do they think it's ok to come out with comments like that! A loss of a baby is horrific no matter how young & healthy you are. It's not like you would just get pregnant again & forget all about it! Wishing you lots of luck, hope things work out ok for you 😘 x

[Jane_30 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for reply...

I agree with you - with everything you wrote...

Beside that - i'm not so young anymore 🤷‍♀️ - i'm 30 years old... 5 years of trying... Today I'm still trying to figure it out what was wrong with that guy... buuut... don't know 🤷‍♀️

Thank you very much - for your wishes 🍀🍀🤗

[Lizzielizzielizzie]

That doctor sounds dreadful. I would write and complain about anyone who had said that to me.

[Jane_30 in reply to Lizzielizzielizzie]

I sent an e-mail (complaint) to the hospital... now I'm waiting for some feed-back 🤷‍♀️

[Hidden]

I’m sorry the doctor was so rude & abrupt. If someone had done that to me last year whilst I was going through a miscarriage I’d been devastated. It’s good you have complained, it might save someone else going through. Well done you.

P.s hope the bleeding calms down & you can get to enjoy being pregnant. Because after after fighting infertility we all should enjoy it 🙂 xoxo

[Jane_30 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for your concern, compassion...

Hm... Fortunately, today was a little better - whitout pain, no fresh blood... but I'm starting to believe that bleeding is sort of my way of pregnancy 🤷‍♀️

But I hope soon will stop........

Thank you Jess - and I totally agree with you - we all should enjoy it! 🍀🍀❤️

[Hidden]

That's awful, they obviously have no idea what you are going through. Sending you big hugs xxx

[Jane_30 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you lovely...

I really appreciate it ❤️🍀🍀

[TRYING2016]

That’s horrible to say to any women who is going through this never mind how old you are, i hope you are ok and feeling better! Good that you have written a complaint its not acceptable behaviour and i hope it all goes well for you xx

[Jane_30 in reply to TRYING2016]

I could not agree more... it was horrible.

Thank you sweetheart, I' better - without pain, bleeding is more like a spotting again... but - tomorrow we'll see if our baby's growing ☺️☺️☺️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Thanky you 🍀🍀

[TRYING2016 in reply to Jane_30]

Thinking of you and wishing for the best ❤️ xx

[Jane_30 in reply to TRYING2016]

Thank you!!! ❤️🍀🍀