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Stronger bleeding with pain - went to the ER (i hope never again...)

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Hello ladies,

yesterday i've noticed some fresh blood (with mucus) on my pad liner - even I'm bleeding since forever (joke πŸ˜‰πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ) - yesterday there was also a constant pain in my lower abdomen...

However, went to the ER, the took me blood, urin, did the scan...

Doctor didn't find the cause of bleeding.. he said "you're young, helthy, if this pragnany won't work, there will be another one" - WTF?! (sorry ladies), on the scan I saw sac, but without baby - so far... he also said "maybe there is a sign of a baby, i cannot tell for sure" he gave me a syrup (for low haenoglobin), and order to stay in bed, until I have an appointment with my doc. (in wednsday...)

However, I hope you'll never have that kind of experience with doctors.. (rude, shameless,..).

Just want to share my little trip to ER with you ☺️

Have a nice day ladies πŸ€πŸ€

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The attitude of some Doctors is absolutely shocking! Why on earth do they think it's ok to come out with comments like that! A loss of a baby is horrific no matter how young & healthy you are. It's not like you would just get pregnant again & forget all about it! Wishing you lots of luck, hope things work out ok for you 😘 x

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Jane_30β€’ in reply to

Thank you for reply...

I agree with you - with everything you wrote...

Beside that - i'm not so young anymore πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ - i'm 30 years old... 5 years of trying... Today I'm still trying to figure it out what was wrong with that guy... buuut... don't know πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

Thank you very much - for your wishes πŸ€πŸ€πŸ€—

That doctor sounds dreadful. I would write and complain about anyone who had said that to me.

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Jane_30β€’ in reply toLizzielizzielizzie

I sent an e-mail (complaint) to the hospital... now I'm waiting for some feed-back πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

I’m sorry the doctor was so rude & abrupt. If someone had done that to me last year whilst I was going through a miscarriage I’d been devastated. It’s good you have complained, it might save someone else going through. Well done you.

P.s hope the bleeding calms down & you can get to enjoy being pregnant. Because after after fighting infertility we all should enjoy it πŸ™‚ xoxo

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Jane_30β€’ in reply to

Thank you for your concern, compassion...

Hm... Fortunately, today was a little better - whitout pain, no fresh blood... but I'm starting to believe that bleeding is sort of my way of pregnancy πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

But I hope soon will stop........

Thank you Jess - and I totally agree with you - we all should enjoy it! πŸ€πŸ€β€οΈ

That's awful, they obviously have no idea what you are going through. Sending you big hugs xxx

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Thank you lovely...

I really appreciate it β€οΈπŸ€πŸ€

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That’s horrible to say to any women who is going through this never mind how old you are, i hope you are ok and feeling better! Good that you have written a complaint its not acceptable behaviour and i hope it all goes well for you xx

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Jane_30β€’ in reply toTRYING2016

I could not agree more... it was horrible.

Thank you sweetheart, I' better - without pain, bleeding is more like a spotting again... but - tomorrow we'll see if our baby's growing ☺️☺️☺️❀️❀️❀️❀️

Thanky you πŸ€πŸ€

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TRYING2016β€’ in reply toJane_30

Thinking of you and wishing for the best ❀️ xx

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Thank you!!! β€οΈπŸ€πŸ€

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