Hi everyone, feeling a little low this week, me and my wife embarked on IVF in October and we managed to get pregnant in the first cycle.
Unfortunately we miscarried on our 8 week scan, which was really tough to take. Looking for some positive stories from this situation.
This has really broken us 💔
Hi. So very sorry to hear this after getting to eight weeks. I do hope yoou have lots of support around you both just now. Perhaps there is no known reason as to why this has happened, but once you have had time to grieve, I would love to think you will be able to try again. Thkinking of you both. Diane
I just want to send you lots of love and strength. Nothing will make this feel better, but I didn't want to just skip past without replying. I'm thinking of you xx
we had an early loss with our first…our second resulted in our 4 year old and our third and last resulted in our two year old! We thought we wouldn’t be that lucky but here we are! Sit tight! xxxx
like the previous commenter, it is important to understand what the cause is so the next round can be better. It’s usually the egg in most cases and testing would prove success especially as it has now been confirmed that she can get pregnant.
First of all im very sorry this has happened to you and your wife, sadly it seems to be a common thing, we are Same position here, we got pregnant first attempt and miscarried at 7 weeks 3 days, it's very distressing especially when you see a heartbeat, all I can say is grieve and take as long as you need and eventually you and your wife will find the strength to Carry on, this ivf stuff is never plain sailing, wishing you all the best
So sorry to hear this x
We unfortunately lost twins at 7 weeks back in August x Nothing anyone can say can make you feel better but also know you’re not alone. Be kind to yourself and speak to your consultant when you feel it’s ready.
Those were our last embryos so i’m starting stims today and doing one last OE cycle but doing pgta. Our consultant told us most miscarriages are due to an embryo abnormality., since everything with my husbands sperm is fine he’s put it down to poor egg quality from years of silent endo x
Good luck for the future xx
I’m so sorry to read this, but please don’t give up hope.
Take time to heal and ask all the questions you can to your clinic. See what you can possibly do differently next time or even if you want to try naturally.
Wishing you the very best xx
Im so sorry for your loss it’s the most painful feeling. Just take day by day and when you’re ready you can try again. Do you have any frozen embryos? We had a miscarriage back in July with our first fresh cycle and we have now just transferred one of our frozen embryos as of last week. Hoping we get our rainbow baby and you will too 🌈
Sorry to read this, it's devastating and my heart goes out to you. We also had a miscarriage at 12 weeks with our first fresh transfer after seeing a heartbeat so I know the pain you're going through. Do you have any more embryos left to try? Our second frozen transfer resulted in our daughter. I only left it about 2 months before trying again, I know everyone reacts differently and you may need more time but personally the experience made me made me even more determined to keep going.
Fast forward 3 years and we've been trying for a second child (with the same batch of embryos) but have had 2 more early miscarriages at the 8 week scan and I'm trying our last frozen embryo now which is a very early positive...Keeping everything crossed it sticks around as it's our last embryo we have.
In our experience there has been nothing that has come up in tests that is unusual or anything, the most likely thing it would be is a chromosomal issue.
I know things seem dark now but hope you can lean in to each other for support and courage during this difficult time. Best of luck xx
I’m so sorry to hear this and sending you all the best wishes. If it’s a little positive light, I sadly miscarried my first and am currently pregnant again through my second frozen transfer with my 20 week scan next week. i hope your time comes soon x
Your post is giving me hope❤️ just what I need right now after doom scrolling. After our early miscarriage in July we are now waiting for our official test next week following our 2nd frozen transfer last week. Not really feeling any symptoms as of yet just very emotional. X
I had absolutey zero symptoms too, it doesn’t mean anything, in fact I actually think I felt better than usual. Good luck for more joy ahead!
I’m so sorry that happened, it is heartbreaking after everything you’ve gone through to get to this point. Our first transfer resulted in a miscarriage at 6 weeks which was detected in our scan. We were heartbroken. But I had a frozen transfer about 2 months later which resulted in our 2 year old son. He was our last embryo from that round and we had more treatment last year, leading to our daughter born 12 weeks ago. So just to say this sad outcome doesn’t mean you won’t go on to have success. For now it is fine to feel the sadness and unfairness of it all and for you and your wife to take time to process. Be kind to yourselves and know you couldn’t have done anything differently. But once you’re ready you can try again if you wish to. Wishing you best of luck
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