Hey lovely’s ❤️

[Kurstx]

Not been on for a while I hope you are all doing good. ❤️ Just thought I’d pop on and check in lol nothing much happening here in Scotland with me waiting for af to arrive next week so I can call and try get booked in for fet. I’m not hopeful tho as others have and been told full this month so prob another waiting game saying that at least things are moving. 🙌🏻 I am struggling a bit tho sound silly but I got a notification saying congratulations your now 30 weeks (I thought I’d stopped them all) so it’s kinda set me back mentally 😭 god it’s hard I’m such a strong person aswell but hey even I have bad days lol I’m so scared but desperately wanting to start fet like I’m worried about having a mmc again with the 2 frozen embryos I have I’m thinking are they going to be the same?? I know there is so many positive story’s but I guess it’s normal to doubt!! Sorry if I’m been negative one of those days and it’s hard to speak out to friends and family when sometimes they don’t get it! 🤷‍♀️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️ xxx

[treezuk]

Don’t apologise we’ve all been there it took me 4 transfers (2 donor rounds) to get pregnant and stay pregnant we now have twins 15m old , but it’s hard to try get yourself in that headspace and be posative I wrote my last transfer off thinking that it was already gonna be a fail and it wasn’t.

Hang in there ♥️

[Kurstx in reply to treezuk]

Thank you 😊 yes it’s a hard journey but so worth it 🌈 wishing you all the best hun xxx

[treezuk in reply to Kurstx]

Thank you and you to x

[Weareback2]

Best of luck I had a miscarriage and for next round it was a FET. I am now 22 weeks pregnant. Whilst I am over the moon that it has worked I have found it hard to get exited for fear that something will happen. People who conceive naturally just don't understand so yes it is totally normal to doubt. Will have everything crossed for you x

[Hidden]

Great to hear from you, fingers crossed you get started soon, I am also waiting to start again and the days/weeks are draaaagging!

I think its really normal to have doubts, this will be my fifth round and I have had various losses and BFNs over the last four years. I go from feeling really excited and optimistic, to thinking its not even worth bothering, to worrying I won't get a bfp, to worrying I will get a bfp but MC again etc etc .. my head is like a washing machine!

Great you have some Frosties - I always have to do fresh rounds, really hope this is the round for you xx

[LisaBeatrix1980]

I don't think it's negative at all, just natural to worry occasionally (if not all the time) about the possibilities, you'd have to be a complete machine to not have the odd doubt. But stay positive and optimistic, I have learned in the last few weeks that's literally all we can bring to the table during some stages of this, so much of it is out of our hands which I think makes the anxiety worse at times. But hang in there, that's what this forum is best for and certainly how I use it, to share my fears because you are certainly among good company here. Hope you get the news you want soon xx