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10dp 5dt Not feeling positive 😞

10dp 5dt Not feeling positive 😞

I know I said it on the last fet and I probably said it on the first fet too but I don’t think this is going to be a bfp. I thought I was out on the last two cycles due to af cramping in the tww but having had bfps on those rounds I believe that cramping was actually a symptom, a good sign.. I haven’t had any af cramping this time. I’ve had some sharp twinges and shooting pains and mild lower back ache for the past 3-4 days. I had some lightheadedness a couple of days ago. But that’s it. No af cramping, no spotting, no sore boobs (perhaps they’re a tad more sensitive but I’m probably imagining it). So all in all I’m not feeling very confident about tomorrow. Of course I hope more than anything that you’ll all be saying “Told you so!” tomorrow and I’d love to be the first to admit I’m wrong but..... The Heparin has been a new and painful experience but I’d give anything to have to keep doing it every day for the next 9 months, nothing would make me happier!!! Tomorrow could be game over, for good 😢

Thank you to everyone for your comments and messages of support. I couldn’t have done any of this without you all 😘 xx

Please excuse my bloated belly

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all i will say is good luck for 2moro and i prayer this is your time.,... all pregnancies are different so you never know.....xx

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Thank you xx

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Good luck for tomorrow! Hoping tomorrow brings good news xx

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Your few symptoms seem like mine yet I had a BFP. I believe this is your time and everything will be ok. All I had as symptoms were a few twinges and shooting pain which I thought I was imagining. I had mild lower back pain which I still have on and off and light headed ness for I think 1 day. I had no spotting up to now but still got a BFP. It’s anazing I prayed for you shortly before I read this. God will make away. All the best tomorrow and will pray for you again in the morning. Take care x

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I really hope you’re right 🙏🏻 xx

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I will say another prayer for you in the morning. God is faithful x

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Good luck for tomorrow, have everything crossed for you xx

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Wishing you so much luck for tomorrow, keep hope as every pregnancy is different xx

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Praying for your BFP tomorrow 💕stay hopeful xx

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I have everything crossed for you Hun I really do xx

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Ooooooo your poor belly hun. Big hugs 💗

Sore boobs don't always happen , you know deep down we can't symptom spot but we always will especially when you've been through this before and felt differently previously.

I'm praying so hard tomorrow is your dream bfp ending with your 🌈 I know I can't say anything that will make you feel better. Just sending you lots of love and hugs. I hope tomorrow is a celebration 💗🤗😘

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But you’ve tried and you know how much I appreciate that 😘 Yes sore belly but how I’d give anything to keep having to inject these everyday 🙏🏻 xx

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I know you would. I'm praying hard that you have to keep doing them too, really really hope this is your time you deserve this so much lovely you really do. Big massive hugs to you. What time will you test 💗🤗😘

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I’d like to say 7:30-8 am but I know I won’t be asleep by then, it’ll end up being around the same time I’ve always tested so about 5-5:30 am. I won’t be sleeping well tonight, haven’t done for the last few nights xx

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Awww lovely, I'm with you on the rubbish sleeping. I'll pm you later if I'm up and if you can't sleep well have a chat. Big hugs my love fingers crossed for tomorrow lovely 💗🤗😘

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💕

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Sending the biggest hugs to you. I hope you get a good sleep tonight xxx

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Thank you. So sorry about your bfn. I hope you’re ok xx

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Don't you worry about me, you just concentrate on you and embie ❤ xxx

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Sending love, hope and prayers Mrs. I'll be on the road for work early in the morning but I'll be thinking of you xx

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I appreciate that xx

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Stay positive lovely got everything crossed for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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So hard to stay positive when this cycle has been so different to the last two. I’ve been emotional all day. Thank you though xx

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The fact it’s different maybe a good sign! Wishing you lots of luck xxxx

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😘

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Wishing you a bfp for tomorrow 🤞🏻You have so much experience and I know nothing can take away your worry.. just wanted to wish you luck and say I’m thinking of you. Your not out until your out 😘 sending hugs Xx

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Thank you xx

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Fingers crossed for you for tomorrow that you get your BFP.

Oooo ouch to your belly ☹ xx

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I’ve cried over these a few times but tonight I cried in case it was my last one lol. Thank you xx

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Bless you , hopefully not your last one ❤ xx

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Massive hugs and love! My mum didn’t ever have symptoms and there are 3 if us girlies!! I didn’t have symptoms either... not that I would mind either way 💕 xx

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It’s reassuring to hear of bfps with very little symptoms. Just hope mine is one and that it’s third bfp lucky 🍀🍀🍀 xx

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All fingers, toes and paws crossed for you in this house!! 💕 xx

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Aww thanks xx 🐾

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Wishing you loads of luck and love for tom!! Xx

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Ah I'm so sad reading your worries :( I'm hopeful for you tomorrow hunny. Every journey is different and we all know you never can tell. Do something special tonight you deserve it. Be kind to yourself. Good luck for the morning xx

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Thank you for being so sweet. OH and I went out earlier for a meal and came back in time to do my injections. Will chill with the bunnies tonight xx

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It is a difficult journey and you’ve had a heck of a ride not surprised you’re feeling negative- probably self preservation.

No symptoms doesn’t mean you’re not pregnant- personally I think at that point it’s too soon. I never any with either of my pregnancies.

Wishing you the very best for tomorrow and truly hope this is your time if anyone deserves this it’s you 🤗🌈💗 xoxo

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Thank you Jess xx

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GOOD luck for tomorrow hun. I hope tomorrow brings the sunshine in your life .

Stop worrying about the symptoms as i didnt had any symptoms in my 2ww (i was normal, no sore boobs ,no cramps , no spotting) and the result came out positive . I was scared too and cried allnight the day before but got BFP .

I am hoping and praying the same for you too 🤞🏻

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Thank you for the positive reply xx

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Keeping everything crossed for tomorrow and really hoping to see your BFP tomorrow morning 🤞🏼🙏🏼, you deserve it so much after everything you have been through. Sending big hugs 😘 xx

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That’s really nice thank you xx

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Oh Tugsgirl that poor belly looks like it's been through the wars!! 😳 Really just wanted to wish you the best of luck for tomorrow, you're so patient I probably would have caved by now. I'll be thinking of you and sending good vibes your way xx

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Many thanks Lilli. I wasn’t about to break my habit by testing early, I’ve always waited until otd. It helps that I don’t have any extra tests in the house except the one from the clinic. Yes my belly is quite sore but I’m prepared to put up with that and more for a 🌈 baby xx

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Will be thinking about you tomorrow xxx your poor tummy xxx

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Thank you. It’s not nice but the things we do in pursuit of our dreams.. xx

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We will do whatever it takes won’t we! ❤️xx

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Aww Tugsgirl I didn't feel alot of symptoms and i got bfp.overthinking every symptom is normal. Please hang in there. Rooting for you.

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Wishing you so much luck for tomorrow 🤞🍀 xxx

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Lots and lots of luck tomorrow. My first BFP I had so much cramping it was unreal, plus implantation spotting. My second I felt barely anything and no spotting! You just never know. Xxx

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That’s reassuring thank you xx

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Hello. I'm sorry you're not having a positive day. I'm not sure it's any consolation but I've had preganancies both with and without symptoms so I do hope you get a nice surprise tomorrow. I hate blood thinners too. This was my third time using Tinzaparin. The only benefit this time around was that I was used to doing my drug injections for the ivf by the time I had to inject it so I paid less attention/tensed up less and seemed to get less bruises as a result. x

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I’m on two injections a day, Lubion and Heparin but the Lubion is a doddle compared to Heparin. Thankfully OH does my injections while I look away lol. Just hoping he gets to continue them tomorrow, we both do 🤞 xx

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Have everything crossed for you and your hubby tomorrow. Xxxx

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Jesus Christ, your poor belly!!! Maybe the difference in feelings this time is a positive sign? Keeping absolutely everything crossed for you tomorrow. 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀 xxxxx

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I’m not so sure but thank you so much. Yes I’m sore but I’m prepared to do it if it means I can get my 🌈 🙏🏻 xx

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Bless u. Tummy looks painful. Oh fingers crossed for u Hun. Hopefully those are all good signs and u will get ur bfp🤞🤞🤞take good care xx

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It is sore but a small price to pay if it works. Thank you xx

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Sending you big hugs Vicky. Good luck for tomorrow I'm really hoping it's good news ❤️ Xxx

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Fingers and toes crossed for you. I really do hope you get. BFP xx

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Fingers crossed for tomorrow!

Xx

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Fingers crossed Tugsgirl as the saying goes its not over till the fat lady sings! And hopefully you'l be singing bfp tomrrow. Xx

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Thank you Vonny. I hope you’re well xx

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I'm fine thank you hun x

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Best of luck tomorrow!! I’m praying for you 🙏

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Good luck for tomorrow, I hope the twinges and shooting pains are a good sign. Some people never get any symptoms and have a BFP, you really never know but I completely understand why you are feeling anxious. It's quite a punishing thing to go through.

Really wishing you all the luck in the world. xx

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Thanks Caroline. I’m sorry I haven’t been on WhatsApp for a while. I had to offload it due to lack of space on my phone xx

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no apologies needed. I thought maybe you just didn't wanna talk about it all, which I completely get too. This rollercoaster can get quite tiresome. Will be thinking of you both in the morning. xx Hope you manage some sleep tonight. Watch a few films to take your mind off things. xx

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I’d never intentionally ignore you. It only occurred to me the other day when someone asked if I’d got their WhatsApp that I could have had messages from you. I keep trying to tidy up my phone and delete photos and stuff and I’ve offloaded lots of apps but it still keeps screaming at me for more space xx

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Aww... your poor tum! Really rooting for you to have a positive outcome tomorrow 🤞💕 xx

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Good luck for tomorrow

I'm hoping to wake up to your positive result

Everything is crossed for you xxx

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I am sending so much love and luck xxxxxxxxxxxx

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All the best for tomorrow,. Will. Be looking for your update ❤️❤️❤️

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Thinking of you and sending so much love and positivity. You have been on such a journey and I pray this is your time, you truly deserve your bfp. I hope you can get a reasonable sleep, be kind to yourself, and stay hopeful, always have hope xx

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I’m trying. It’s so hard sometimes xx

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Very best of luck for tomorrow! Keeping everything crossed that this is your time.. ❤️ xxx

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Thinking of you Tugs and have everything crossed for you - those are some bruises, you look like a true warrior queen 👸

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Thank you. I’ve come a long way in conquering many fears on this journey. I just hope it’s all worth it xx

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There is always hope! Try not to compare things with previous fet (s) Trusting and praying you get your bfp tomorrow. Your tummy looks very painful. Ouch! Try and stay positive. Xo

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It’s hard but I’m trying. I’d do anything to get my 🌈 at the end of all this xx

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You are really brave and doing well. You have a wonderful attitude. You deserve a bfp tomorrow. Trusting this is your time. Try and get a good night's sleep if you can. Sending you a hug.xo

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I’ll try. Thank you xx

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I will be thinking of you, and hoping so much that this can be your time. I sincerely hope so xxxxxxx

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Thank you. You’ve always been so lovely to me xx

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I feel like I know you, hugs to you and not forgetting your Mum xx it’s difficult watching your Daughter xxxxxx

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Yes. Mum told me to stay positive this morning and that she will keep believing until proven otherwise. I know she’ll be really upset for me tomorrow if it’s a bfn xx

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Sorry your tummy looks so sore bless you. your so good waiting until tomorrow, I’m sure your be ok. Try and go to bed on a positive note I’m sure your get your bfp tomorrow. Praying for you xxx❤️ Good luck

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Never tested before otd, too scared to. Yes I’m sore but if it worked it would be worth it and then some! Thank you for your kind words xx

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Oh your poor belly! Best of luck for tomorrow,hope it’s bring you good news🙏🏻 Lots of people had no symptoms and got their BFP.have everything crossed for you 🤞🏻xx

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Thank you xx

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Good luck tomorrow xx

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Best of luck for tomorrow Tugsgirl my fingers are crossed tightly for you lovely. Don' give up hope no pregnancy is ever the same. Be kind to yourself whatever the outcome. Hoping you get the result we all want you to have 😘😘

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I sad to see how sore your tummy is as my never bruised that bad. I hope you get a BFP tomorrow. ☺☺☺

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Just my luck I guess lol. Thank you xx

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Im awake with morning sickness so just hoping for your BFP. ☺ i hope your tummy bruises go down. I used a large ice cube before injections it also numb it a bit but you may have done this. Awwww good luck

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Oh bless you, your tummy looks so tender. Really praying for a good outcome tomorrow....Im thinking about you!🙏🤞😗xx

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It is. Small price to pay if it works 🙏🏻 xx

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The very best of luck for tomorrow. Stay positive, I hope you get the news you deserve x

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Good luck for tomorrow hunni xxxx

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i’ve been thinking of you every day & hope more than anything it’s good news tomorrow.

sending hugs & positive vibes 🤞🏻✨

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Thank you xx

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Best of luck! I had and still have lower back ache and got my bfp. I'll be thinking of you x

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Yea I’ve got it tonight. It’s been pretty consistent the last few days. I guess I was looking for similar symptoms to last time xx

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Wishing you the very best of luck for tomorrow x

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Thinking of you Vicky. I’ll be praying for you tomorrow. xxx

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Thank you xx

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I’m sorry I’ve only just seen this.

I wish you all the luck in the world . Lots of love xxx

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Fingers crossed for u hun sending big hugs xxxx

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Thinking of you for tomorrow !

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Good luck tugs girl 🍀🍀🍀🍀 hope today brings you good news stay possative 💖xx

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Trusting all goes well today. I just said a prayer for you. This is your time. God bless you.x

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Thinking of you xx

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Thinking of you today xxxx 🤞🏻

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Best of luck this morning 🤞 xx

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Ohh that looks sore.... but I know what you mean about wishing you had to do it for the next nine months! I didn’t get any symptoms whatsoever with this one so don’t lose hope just yet. Thinking of you both xxxxxx

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Good luck. Hope it's good news xx

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I have everything crossed for you this morning xx

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Good luck this morning xx

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Hoping it all goes well for you today 😘xxxxx

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Sending positive vibes xx

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Wishing you luck for today. Hoping so much you get this xxx

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You always so good at making everyone on here feel better and always leaving such lovely messages! I think we all analyse too much, its human nature and especially with this whole IVF journey. I really hope that they give you a big fat positive tomorrow. I am crossing fingers and toes for you, I hope with all my heart that this is your time 🤞. Big hugs xx

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Good luck!! Wish you a BFP

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This post is 6 months old x

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Oops!!

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It’s okay it’s easily done! x

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P.s good luck for test day hope it’s a BFP xoxo

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Thank you!! @tugsgirl apologies I am not myself today

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Trust me, as I sit outside my clinic waiting for EC, I know how you feel! Not myself today either lol xx

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Good luck!!

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Hey I hope it all went ahead smoothly with the EC and you are now resting...

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