I know I said it on the last fet and I probably said it on the first fet too but I don’t think this is going to be a bfp. I thought I was out on the last two cycles due to af cramping in the tww but having had bfps on those rounds I believe that cramping was actually a symptom, a good sign.. I haven’t had any af cramping this time. I’ve had some sharp twinges and shooting pains and mild lower back ache for the past 3-4 days. I had some lightheadedness a couple of days ago. But that’s it. No af cramping, no spotting, no sore boobs (perhaps they’re a tad more sensitive but I’m probably imagining it). So all in all I’m not feeling very confident about tomorrow. Of course I hope more than anything that you’ll all be saying “Told you so!” tomorrow and I’d love to be the first to admit I’m wrong but..... The Heparin has been a new and painful experience but I’d give anything to have to keep doing it every day for the next 9 months, nothing would make me happier!!! Tomorrow could be game over, for good 😢
Thank you to everyone for your comments and messages of support. I couldn’t have done any of this without you all 😘 xx
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Your few symptoms seem like mine yet I had a BFP. I believe this is your time and everything will be ok. All I had as symptoms were a few twinges and shooting pain which I thought I was imagining. I had mild lower back pain which I still have on and off and light headed ness for I think 1 day. I had no spotting up to now but still got a BFP. It’s anazing I prayed for you shortly before I read this. God will make away. All the best tomorrow and will pray for you again in the morning. Take care x
Sore boobs don't always happen , you know deep down we can't symptom spot but we always will especially when you've been through this before and felt differently previously.
I'm praying so hard tomorrow is your dream bfp ending with your 🌈 I know I can't say anything that will make you feel better. Just sending you lots of love and hugs. I hope tomorrow is a celebration 💗🤗😘
I know you would. I'm praying hard that you have to keep doing them too, really really hope this is your time you deserve this so much lovely you really do. Big massive hugs to you. What time will you test 💗🤗😘
I’d like to say 7:30-8 am but I know I won’t be asleep by then, it’ll end up being around the same time I’ve always tested so about 5-5:30 am. I won’t be sleeping well tonight, haven’t done for the last few nights xx
Awww lovely, I'm with you on the rubbish sleeping. I'll pm you later if I'm up and if you can't sleep well have a chat. Big hugs my love fingers crossed for tomorrow lovely 💗🤗😘
Wishing you a bfp for tomorrow 🤞🏻You have so much experience and I know nothing can take away your worry.. just wanted to wish you luck and say I’m thinking of you. Your not out until your out 😘 sending hugs Xx
Massive hugs and love! My mum didn’t ever have symptoms and there are 3 if us girlies!! I didn’t have symptoms either... not that I would mind either way 💕 xx
Ah I'm so sad reading your worries I'm hopeful for you tomorrow hunny. Every journey is different and we all know you never can tell. Do something special tonight you deserve it. Be kind to yourself. Good luck for the morning xx
GOOD luck for tomorrow hun. I hope tomorrow brings the sunshine in your life .
Stop worrying about the symptoms as i didnt had any symptoms in my 2ww (i was normal, no sore boobs ,no cramps , no spotting) and the result came out positive . I was scared too and cried allnight the day before but got BFP .
Keeping everything crossed for tomorrow and really hoping to see your BFP tomorrow morning 🤞🏼🙏🏼, you deserve it so much after everything you have been through. Sending big hugs 😘 xx
Oh Tugsgirl that poor belly looks like it's been through the wars!! 😳 Really just wanted to wish you the best of luck for tomorrow, you're so patient I probably would have caved by now. I'll be thinking of you and sending good vibes your way xx
Many thanks Lilli. I wasn’t about to break my habit by testing early, I’ve always waited until otd. It helps that I don’t have any extra tests in the house except the one from the clinic. Yes my belly is quite sore but I’m prepared to put up with that and more for a 🌈 baby xx
Lots and lots of luck tomorrow. My first BFP I had so much cramping it was unreal, plus implantation spotting. My second I felt barely anything and no spotting! You just never know. Xxx
Hello. I'm sorry you're not having a positive day. I'm not sure it's any consolation but I've had preganancies both with and without symptoms so I do hope you get a nice surprise tomorrow. I hate blood thinners too. This was my third time using Tinzaparin. The only benefit this time around was that I was used to doing my drug injections for the ivf by the time I had to inject it so I paid less attention/tensed up less and seemed to get less bruises as a result. x
I’m on two injections a day, Lubion and Heparin but the Lubion is a doddle compared to Heparin. Thankfully OH does my injections while I look away lol. Just hoping he gets to continue them tomorrow, we both do 🤞 xx
Have everything crossed for you and your hubby tomorrow. Xxxx
Jesus Christ, your poor belly!!! Maybe the difference in feelings this time is a positive sign? Keeping absolutely everything crossed for you tomorrow. 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀 xxxxx
Good luck for tomorrow, I hope the twinges and shooting pains are a good sign. Some people never get any symptoms and have a BFP, you really never know but I completely understand why you are feeling anxious. It's quite a punishing thing to go through.
no apologies needed. I thought maybe you just didn't wanna talk about it all, which I completely get too. This rollercoaster can get quite tiresome. Will be thinking of you both in the morning. xx Hope you manage some sleep tonight. Watch a few films to take your mind off things. xx
I’d never intentionally ignore you. It only occurred to me the other day when someone asked if I’d got their WhatsApp that I could have had messages from you. I keep trying to tidy up my phone and delete photos and stuff and I’ve offloaded lots of apps but it still keeps screaming at me for more space xx
Thinking of you and sending so much love and positivity. You have been on such a journey and I pray this is your time, you truly deserve your bfp. I hope you can get a reasonable sleep, be kind to yourself, and stay hopeful, always have hope xx
There is always hope! Try not to compare things with previous fet (s) Trusting and praying you get your bfp tomorrow. Your tummy looks very painful. Ouch! Try and stay positive. Xo
You are really brave and doing well. You have a wonderful attitude. You deserve a bfp tomorrow. Trusting this is your time. Try and get a good night's sleep if you can. Sending you a hug.xo
Yes. Mum told me to stay positive this morning and that she will keep believing until proven otherwise. I know she’ll be really upset for me tomorrow if it’s a bfn xx
Sorry your tummy looks so sore bless you. your so good waiting until tomorrow, I’m sure your be ok. Try and go to bed on a positive note I’m sure your get your bfp tomorrow. Praying for you xxx❤️ Good luck
Oh your poor belly! Best of luck for tomorrow,hope it’s bring you good news🙏🏻 Lots of people had no symptoms and got their BFP.have everything crossed for you 🤞🏻xx
Best of luck for tomorrow Tugsgirl my fingers are crossed tightly for you lovely. Don' give up hope no pregnancy is ever the same. Be kind to yourself whatever the outcome. Hoping you get the result we all want you to have 😘😘
Im awake with morning sickness so just hoping for your BFP. ☺ i hope your tummy bruises go down. I used a large ice cube before injections it also numb it a bit but you may have done this. Awwww good luck
Ohh that looks sore.... but I know what you mean about wishing you had to do it for the next nine months! I didn’t get any symptoms whatsoever with this one so don’t lose hope just yet. Thinking of you both xxxxxx
Wishing you luck for today. Hoping so much you get this xxx
You always so good at making everyone on here feel better and always leaving such lovely messages! I think we all analyse too much, its human nature and especially with this whole IVF journey. I really hope that they give you a big fat positive tomorrow. I am crossing fingers and toes for you, I hope with all my heart that this is your time 🤞. Big hugs xx
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I'm hopeful for you tomorrow hunny. Every journey is different and we all know you never can tell. Do something special tonight you deserve it. Be kind to yourself. Good luck for the morning xx
Natural FET w/ shorter luteal phase?
Bleeding 8 days after 5DT
7dp5dt and spotting... Not sure what to think!
3 days post 5 day FET and I no longer feel anything- losing my mind searching for symptoms that just aren’t there! ☹️
Feeling deflated 
