How accurate is FET testing dates

[BluMonkey]

Hi, I had a FET last Friday my test date was today. I got a BFN 🙁 I feel really nauseous and need to go loo a lot. I’ve been told to test in 2 days time. Has anyone else been through this, or is it just false hope? Feeling really sad as we miscarried last summer after our first IVF round. Any advice will be appreciated.

[Cinderella5]

Im so sorry for your loss. What day did they suggest you test? My NHS cycles gave me day 14 post 5 day transfer. However my Greek clinic say to test on day 12 and if negative to repeat on day 14. I got a late positive on one of my cycles however we unfortunately miscarried.xx

[BluMonkey in reply to Cinderella5]

I’m so sorry to hear that. They suggested I test on the 9th day with is today and then two days later which is Tuesday and will be day 11. We also had a 5 day blastocyst. This time round I’ve had all the symptoms and I thought just maybe it will be okay.

I hope you are okay x

[Cinderella5 in reply to BluMonkey]

Well I would carry on and recheck. My late positive didnt show up until day 12 and I know a few other ladies that have havent had positives until around day 11 with FRER and have little ones now. Good luck, I really hope it changes for you!xx

[BluMonkey in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you for your advice. Good luck to you too as well! Hopefully all will work out for us all x

[Jebby86]

Hi, I was always told to test on day 11 after after a 5 day transfer. Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 Xx

[BluMonkey in reply to Jebby86]

Thank you 🙏🏽 It’s just nice to have people who have been through the same thing as you. Trying to deal with my disappointment from today. X

[Sammy246]

Hi, I was told to check on day 14 after a 5 day blastocyst, it was a positive but we miscarried. Maybe try again until day 14. Good luck I really hope it changes for you xx

[BluMonkey in reply to Sammy246]

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you. Have been so anxious in and out of sleep thinking about it. X

[BluMonkey]

Guess it wasn’t meant to be. BFN today too. Been getting body aches guess my period is meant to come, but the progesterone has been stopping it for now.

One more embryo left and then have to really think about what’s next for us.

Both hubby and I are devastated as our fertility is unexplained. They can’t find a reason to why we aren’t conceiving. After trying for many years we went down the ivf route and now feeling like time is running out for us.

Last year when we got pregnant with our first round we were over the world. Didn’t think it could happen for us but it did. Then we had the mmc and our whole lives changed. It felt traumatic. We were sent by our gp to early eau but they refused to see us at first saying all the notes from our hospital was not there. Eventually we managed to get the paper work for the next day, we went back and were told to come in at the end of the week for a mm. I was told my husband couldn’t be at the ward. I waited from 7am till 1.30 pm distraught, only to be told that they had to cancel due to other emergencies. I was traumatised and booked to go to a private mm.

Maybe this is the universes way of stopping that from happening again. I don’t know. Feel so numb right now.