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Negative test 9DP5DT (FET)

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So I'm not officially supposed to test until Saturday (27/08) but I sneakily tested this morning and it was negative. I am beyond gutted and feel so down. Our embryo was AA so was so hopeful this time, this whole infertility journey is all so unfair isn't it

Was also told to go get Beta HCG bloods done today at my GP clinic which I have (results will take 4-7 days). Seems like a complete waste of time now though.

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JA-fnukPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Thinking of you but still keep taking any medication you have been given as directed and test again on your OTDTake care of yourself

Janet

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prayingforamiracle82 in reply toJA-fnuk

I will do. Thank you x

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SR90

There is just no making sense to all of this, I’m really sorry! But don’t give you, your time isn’t up yet this round.

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prayingforamiracle82 in reply toSR90

Thanks you for replying. It's just so hard isn't it. I'm dreading OTD and having to see my Husband get so upset again, breaks my heart.

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Questioningitall

Sorry to hear it was a negative this time, it's so hard and unfair! Sending hugs x

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prayingforamiracle82 in reply toQuestioningitall

Xx

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Ubeeten8

Hi,

I get what you mean. I am on day 10 today and when I tested 2 days ago I had a faint line and this morning no line at all! It was so upsetting and I still feel so crap. Official test date is 31/8 and they said keep taking meds but I don’t see the point.

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prayingforamiracle82 in reply toUbeeten8

I'm so sorry to read this. The world of infertility is so cruel isn't it. I know it feels pointless, but keep taking your meds as your clinic has told you and test again on 31/08. Sending lots of hugs xx

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Ubeeten8 in reply toprayingforamiracle82

Aw thank you for your kind message. Mentally switched off and ready for next round. We have 2 embryos left so hoping maybe something there to work with. How are you feeling today? Maybe distract yourself at the weekend xx x

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prayingforamiracle82 in reply toUbeeten8

I know exactly what you mean, I have too. OTD tomorrow but I'm ready for the pending bad news. This was an AA embryo, I really thought this was it this time! We also have two embryos left (an AB and a BB). Fingers crossed for us both 🤞 I'm feeling ok, just dreading seeing my Husband upset again tomorrow, absolutely breaks my heart. Hope you're ok and have some nice plans for the weekend xx

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Ubeeten8 in reply toprayingforamiracle82

Yes it’s so sad to see them upset but hopefully next time will be great news! I am not too concerned about grades of embryo too much as I have read lower grades can stick too. As long as baby is healthy 🙏. See you at round 2! Xx

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prayingforamiracle82 in reply toUbeeten8

Take care lovely xx

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Lee_Lee_w

I'm really so sorry to read your post, big hugs to you xx

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prayingforamiracle82 in reply toLee_Lee_w

Thank you xx

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