Dreading Sunday!

[Twiglet2]

Sorry I just need a moan with people who might be able to relate 🙈 last month I had an early miscarriage and when I was pregnant for a few weeks I stupidly planned to tell my mum on Mother’s Day because I would have been around 11-12 weeks so obviously I’ve made it doubly hard for myself this year (it’s always a hard day for the last few years) BUT I had gotten myself positive about it as I was starting a new natural FET cycle this week and might even have had the transfer by Sunday depending on when I ovulate and I was going to have a lovely day out with my own mum and sister. Now my cycle is cancelled until god knows when, we can’t go out with my mum and I’m not even sure if I should visit her as she is in the vulnerable category for COVID 19 😭😭 how do I give myself a shake and get over it?

[Hidden]

I think you need a good cry to be honest.

its always so hard, we have so many plans and dreams when we get our BFPs.. and these date milestones when we had planned things are always difficult. Harder still when we are all being kept separate from our loved ones, especially when you need a good hug.

I don't think you need to shake yourself quite yet, I think you should allow yourself some time to be upset because you do need to grieve for what might have been. But sort of put a timescale on it? So allow yourself a day of pure poor me but then maybe tomorrow think right new start etc. Give yourself some time on Sunday for a little cry too.

it does get easier I promise xx

[Twiglet2 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you 🤗 thought I was over all the grieving and felt positive this has just set me back more than I expected xx

[Hidden in reply to Twiglet2]

I don't think its as uniform as that, there isnt a cut off. I have had three MC now the most recent being last September... I think I am fine and then some days I just cry and cry and its often the weirdest thing that sets me off! I think you need to get it out as I bottled up far too much after my second one and it sent me a bit bonkers... so I think its ok to have a good cry but we also have to do the shake and carry on too afterwards

big hugs xx

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I find a good cry does me the power of good as well!