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So today I am 13dpt and my testing day is tomorrow but I wanted to prepare myself, I took tests on 9dpt/10dpt/11dpt/12dpt which all showed faint positives and today no line at all. Not sure what happened as would imagine I tested too early for trigger injection so the only thing I can think.....possible chemical pregnancy. Only thing I go do now is move forward to the next round hopefully and learn from this one xx

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Tiddly1984

So sorry Cheeky. Wish I could hug you. Move forward in your own time and I hope when the next time comes your happiness won’t be so short lived...x

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peapop33

I am so sorry to hear this ❤️ X x x

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Picalilli99

Really sorry to hear this. We also had our BFN this morning and suspect we had another chemical so I understand how disappointing/upsetting/confusing it can all feel. Sending you a big hug and wishing you lots of luck for when you are ready to go again xx

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L400ynd in reply to Picalilli99

Awwww no sweetie. Big love to you. I’m so sorry to read this. All my love xxxxxxxxxx

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Picalilli99 in reply to L400ynd

Thanks so much. Best of luck for your OTD lovely 🤞 xx

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L400ynd in reply to Picalilli99

Thank you sweetie. I’m not hopeful tho. I’ve had more brown stuff this morning (tmi) that is very like the first day of AF. Xxx

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry to see your post. It sounds like you've had a chemical pregnancy, where the embryo has begun to implant but not successfully. Its awful when this happens, having been there myself I can sympathise. Hugs.xx

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L400ynd

I’m so sorry love. I wish I could give you a big hug. It’s so awful to get a negative. I can’t imagine how you are feeling after getting a positive first. Big hugs. Xxxxxxxxxx

Can't say any more than what the others have said but sending you the hugest hug. Be kind to yourself, it will get easier xx

This happened to me me last cycle. I tested from day 5 and you could see the line get clearer and clearer. I tested a day early on the hospital test which was positive then that was the last positive test and then tested negative. Wasn't too sure if it was a chemical or the HCG but it was nearly 3 weeks so I'm guessimg not the trigger.

I'm now day 3 post 5 day transfer and have zero symptoms and don't feel confident at all this time but i'm not going to test until day 10 when I am supposed too.

All the best x

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Lots8788

So sorry xx big big hugs to you xx

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amandac84

I am so sorry to hear this I can totally sympathize as this happened to me in November. Sending you love and uplifting thoughts at such a difficult time zz

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Cheeky_84

Thank you everyone for all ur lovely comments. A lot of tears this morning but I m ok. Just waiting now really, had no symptoms, no bleeding, no discharge, no brown spotting nothing so just get a feeling AF is going to be heading my way soon, not sure if crinone pessaries are just holding it up xx

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ttcemmie

Sorry to hear this lovely. This journey is cruel. Usually I'd say I'm holding out hope 'til OTD (thought you were going to hold out 'til OTD now!), but that's hard when you've been having positives and now nothing. Sending you my best wishes. xxxx

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MrsH17

I am so sorry to hear this. Sounds like it was a chemical 😔 I know how hard it is having a failed cycle and probably made worse by getting positives.

I hope you are able to take the time you need to yourself and can do another cycle xxx

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L2213

I’m really sorry to hear this, it’s devastating. Thinking of you and sending you hugs, look after yourself xxx

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dreams28

So sorry to hear that. Chin up. X

That really sucks doesn't it when you get your hopes up only to have it result in nothing!

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Kurstx

So sorry to hear this thinking of you sending you lots of hugs ❤️❤️❤️ xxx

Sending you lots of hugs and love xxxx ❤️❤️❤️

I’m so very sorry. Having had a chemical pregnancy I know how hard it time is the only healer. Hope next time is your “time”. I had my daughter after a chemical pregnancy. There is hope. For now be kind to yourselves xxx

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Lou7744

Aww... I’m so sorry to read this. Sending big hugs 💕 xx

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