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IT'S ALL OVER, SENSITIVE

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Hi everyone, I should have posted this long time ago but I had no guts to do so, we have lost our triplets(all girls) on the 15nth of December @ 21 weeks.After 14 years of trying I thought this was our breakthrough, we are thinking of giving our last try on February, hoping 2019 will have something good for us.We had the worst Xmas ever. Thanks for all the comments, they keep us going & giving us hope.

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Orla9298

I can’t even tell you how sorry I am to read this and to see your beautiful babies. There are no words to try to comfort but I’m wishing for strength for you, to help you cope with what I’m must be the hardest thing you will ever face. I’m so sorry. Lots of love xxxx

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Nikitela in reply to Orla9298

Thanks a lot dear

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HollyT7

Good morning Nikitela. It breaks my heart to hear this from you. Your little girls look so beautiful. I hope that 2020 brings you a sence of peace at this very difficult time, my heart goes out to you both xxx ❤️

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Nikitela in reply to HollyT7

Thanks, God's will

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Leigh2244

So so heartbreaking, after the tough journey you have been on. They look so perfect bless the three angels.

There are no words, other than you are in my thoughts and prayers. Take time to heal and look after yourselves. XX

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Nikitela in reply to Leigh2244

Thanks dear

I’m so so sorry, I can’t imagine the pain and sadness your feeling right now it’s heartbreaking sending love x

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Corchi

I send you courage, light and love so much love. I am so sorry for your pain. It must be excruciating but I must believe everything happens for a reason. I have had 6 miscarriages but then suddenly had a successful pregnancy - a beautiful baby boy. I understand the pain. You WILL be ok.

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Nikitela in reply to Corchi

Hmmmm, congratulations for your baby boy, I strongly believe something big will come this 2020

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Corchi in reply to Nikitela

I hope so! Currently starting ivf for baby number two. Wish me luck 😌

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Nikitela in reply to Corchi

You will definitely have your second baby my dear

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Corchi in reply to Nikitela

I am sending you so much love and courage your way. ❤️

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Nikitela in reply to Corchi

Thanks

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Skippy1982

So sorry for your loss of your beautiful babies. Sending you lots of love 💕 xxx

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goodvibesonly

This is heartbreaking to hear. I can’t imagine what you must be going through emotionally and physically.

I’m sure god is taking good care of them. I’m praying for you and your family 🙏

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Nikitela in reply to goodvibesonly

Thanks

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Nikitela in reply to goodvibesonly

Thanks, I'm trying to be strong

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Missy_22

Oh my goodness I’m so so sorry. Heartbreaking reading this. I’m so sorry. Please look after yourself big hugs xxxxx

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Nikitela in reply to Missy_22

Thank you

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Fingerscrossed38

My heart is broken for you 💔 nobody should have to experience what you've been through. Your daughters are perfect and they will always be with you. Please take time to grieve. Please be kind to yourself. We are here to lean on whenever you need us 🌹🌹🌹

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Sofi1

Oh I'm so sorry. My heart has broken for you. May God give you and your family strength at this difficult time. I will be thinking and praying for you. Take your time and look after yourself xx

Big hugs and love x

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Tiddly1984

This makes me sad. I’m so sorry! I can’t imagine such a loss. Praying for you and praying for your beautiful triplets’ sweet souls. May the Lord strengthen you and bring you peace. x

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Roro1

I am soooo sorry for your loss. My heart sunk when i saw this post. My prayers are with you and your family. Sending you healing, strength and love. Big hugs 🤗

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Olivia1980xxx

Omg i don’t have words hun I don’t know what to say😔 I’m so so sorry to see your little angels 👼 I hope this new year will bring u lots happiness and your miracle...because I believe that what God took he will give something back 🙏 xx

Oh no. How horrible for you all. I feel so bad for everyone. I really hope you find the strength to overcome the immense sadness and hopelessness you must be feeling right now. Also hoping that 2020 will bring you joy. Big huge hugs xxx

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CLDxxx

I’m so sorry. Please look after each other 💕sending love and strength xx

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Solly-44

I’m so sorry, for you and your beautiful beautiful girls. Will be thinking of you xx

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Jenjen84

I’m so sorry 😢 xxx

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Clover5

I’m so sorry for the loss of your 3 little ones. It’s just horrendously cruel.

I lost my little girl at birth last Dec at almost 22 weeks and felt like my had world crumbled, so I can’t imagine how awful it would be to lose 3 babies. I really hope you’ve had a lot of support from the hospital and loved ones and you got to spend some time with your little angels 💕. I’m always here for a chat if you need to talk. Sending lots of love ❤️🙏xX

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Shelleybean

Completely heartbreaking 💔 I’m so so sorry. Can’t imagine what a huge trauma this must be. Please take care of each other. Will be thinking of you. Sending love and strength 💕💕 xx

I’m lost for words I cannot begin to imagine the heartache you must be feeling right now. I know I haven’t got the “right” words but I’m so sorry for your losses of 3 beautiful girls obviously too good for this world. xxx

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Lavender96

I’m so sorry for your loss, I’m heartbroken for you. Sending lots of love xx

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Afrohair

I’m so sorry about this my heart goes out to you at this difficult time stay strong my love x

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Kyell2

I am so sorry. This is absolutely devastating! Look after each other xx

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Violet5451

I'm so sorry for your losses. Sending lots of love and strength xxx

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Tugsgirl

I’m so sorry for you. I wish you every success on your next attempt xx

in reply to Tugsgirl

This is yet another example to show that life is extremely unfair isn't it?

How are you and Mary Elizabeth getting on?

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Tugsgirl in reply to

You know what? You’re right. It is very unfair and cruel at times. Unbelievably so.

We’re good thank you xx

in reply to Tugsgirl

At my last job a colleague who is only 50 has had a tough battle with cancer and when I found out I had said to colleagues here's another example to show how life isn't fair and they all agreed with me saying how life is extremely unfairl

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Cinderella5

I am so very sorry for the loss of your 3 baby girls!! Absolutely heartbreaking!💔 lots of lovexx

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Core

So so sorry for you, can’t evening begin to imagine the devastation you must be feeling xx

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MissSaoPaulo

I am so sorry. I don't know what to say but my heart goes out to you at this awful time xxx

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Annalea

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. I hope you have professional help to deal with this. No one should have to deal with losing a child.

Your babies were perfect, three little angels will look after you.

Take care of yourself and I hope 2020 will bring you joy. Xxx

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Elynn

I am so very sorry. 🌹🌹🌹

It's not fair is it when that happens when you are really looking forward to something and then it's cruelly snatched away and it always feels worse when it's Christmas as well when things like that happen.

I am extremely sorry for your loss.

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Angels2us

I am so very very sorry there is no words ,

It must of been horrible for you at Christmas ,

I am going through a early miscarriage myself now , but this seems absolutely nothing to what you are going through ,

Do they know what happened ?

Sending u all my love , to you and your husband at this terrible time xxxxxx

It doesn't seem right does it we have been trying for 18 years too , xxxxx

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Caitlin-m

I am so so sorry. 💔 xxx

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Frussy

Can not say in words how this kind of news breaks my heart . I am sending you lots of love and keep strongxxxx

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Beaver84

I am so sorry to hear this news. You are in my thoughts and i pray that this year brings you so much happiness and luck. I can't imagine how you feel right now. Ive only been trying 3 years which is nothing in comparison and it truely is so hard. I wish you all the luck and hope that you get your little miracle. You seem very strong, stay strong and keep positive. Xx

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Stacia

My heart bleeds for you. This is really painful. Please be kind to yourself and heal. God sees our tears and hears our prayers. Praying for you

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ChristineB05

I'm so sorry hun, such a devastating situation and terrible time of year. I had my 3rd miscarriage on the 20th December and am hoping 2020 will be the year for us all.

Take care of yourself 💓💓💓

in reply to ChristineB05

That's a horrible thing to happen just before Christmas and its always the way isn't it how these horrible things nearly always happen just before Christmas as well which makes it worse as it appears everyone else is happy and enjoying themselves and you feel you're the only one who isn't.

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Lots8788

I am so so sorry to read this. Sending you so much love and hugs and hope you have lots of support around you xxx

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akpenev3

Ooh nooo! for someone who have been trying for over 10 years...and over hopeful...I cannot even say that I can imagine the pain you are going through.. I pray for strength for you and partner. Lots and lots of love xxx

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Fifikoko

I’m so sorry to read this Nikitela

God is your strength and may your three beautiful angels rest in perfect peace. 🙏🏽

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FrancyItaly

Oh i’m ever so sorry to hear this... it must be truly heartbreaking. I send you a big hug and contact me if you want to talk 💕

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Janop79

I’m so so sorry. You don’t deserve this.

Sending you love and strength. I pray that 2020 is the year your dreams come true xxx

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Ldb01

I am so sorry, losing one was hard enough and at 45 still childless. My heart breaks for you and I pray your next attempt is successful.

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