BFN

[Linzmm78]

Only chance 3day embryo transfer and it’s a BFN this morning can’t describe how heart broken I am 😞💔

[Keepingfaith85]

Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you are okay... I think it's good to let the tears come and let it out. You really deserved your BFP 😥 Thinking of you xxxx

[Jojo_scotland]

Hello,

I’m so sorry, you must be feeling very low. IVF is intense and it takes a lot from you. It sounds like you have had some serious struggles and must be such a strong person.

Take time for yourself. You have done your best and all you can possibly do. This is not your fault.

This may be too early to think about but this does not need to be the end of the IVF road for you, there is options with donors etc also you can think about in the future months.

However at the moment it’s going to take time to process what you have been through and it will take time and be tough.

All the best to you, take care x

[Linzmm78 in reply to Jojo_scotland]

Nothing prepares you for this feeling!! Everything seems to be a fight in my life and it’s hard work! I don’t feel very strong at the moment.

My partner has had to go to work so it’s a day of swollen eyes and hiding under my duvet!

I’m looking forward to having a gin tonight that’s for sure x

[Coral86]

I’m so sorry hope ur ok xxxxx

[Linzmm78 in reply to Coral86]

Just feel so heartbroken 💔

[Coral86 in reply to Linzmm78]

I can really imagine it reallt is the most awful feeling 😞😞😞 I’m so sorry here if wana talk been through it too have my test Sunday xxx

[Linzmm78 in reply to Coral86]

I knew deep down it hadn’t worked but you still have hope!! I’ll have the joys of waiting for the period from hell!

It’ll be a large gin for me tonight xxx

[Coral86 in reply to Linzmm78]

God don’t blame u Hun !! Oh I know I don’t have any hope either just bloody torture xxx

[Linzmm78 in reply to Coral86]

I knew deep down it hadn’t worked but you still have hope!! I’ll have the joys of waiting for the period from hell!

It’ll be a large gin for me tonight xxx

[Caitlin-m]

Sending you a big hug. These are tough times but you are stronger than you think xxxx

[CLDxxx]

So sorry lovely, was hoping for you. Have a good rest and cry today, eat some choc and have a double gin later - you deserve it. Take care of you 💕

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear it hasn't worked. Look after yourself. xx

[Linzmm78]

They were shocked my period hadn’t started??? I thought it wouldn’t if you were taking progesterone pessaries....I’ve been told to look forward to a very heavy painful period for Xmas 👍 x

[CLDxxx in reply to Linzmm78]

Jeeze that’s all you need 🙄 hope it isn’t too painful xxx

[Littlepeax]

I'm so sorry 😣 it really is horrible ♥️💫

[Lowamh]

So sorry to hear this. You have every right to be devastated x

[Hidden]

I am so sorry to hear this and am in the same boat. I have had my BPN today.

[Linzmm78 in reply to Hidden]

Oh no I’m so so sorry my heart hurts for you too this feeling is horrific and there’s nothing anyone can say or do to make you feel better ❤️ be kind to yourself and just feel what you have to feel! I had to go to the doc today to help get me evened out the feelings are too overwhelming for me at the moment. Try to take things day by day xxx

[Hidden in reply to Linzmm78]

Thanks so much for your good vibes. I am sending you lots of positive vibes. You have spoken my mind.

I feel angry, frustrated and disappointed at the same time. I hope you can take it easy and do things which make you happy. If you wish to chat, I would be happy to be your listener! Xx