Feeling torn

[MichelleWG38]

My husband and I paid. For our treatment via access fertility. We do have other cycles we can do but can't really afford the time off or get the extras. We have two embies left. Wanna use them both, but not sure if should use both at once or one at a time. And then there is the other half of me that wants to continue with the journey after using them if unsuccessful. Don't know what to do. I said it is taking its toll on me physically and mentally so I made the decision to stop after using them up but I don't know if it was the right choice or not now.

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi MichelleWG. Always lots f decision making with IVF. I would have thought that using your stored embies would be less hassle, as you can have each one transferred on a natural cycle, which should be less of a problem for you. Perhaps seek some counselling from the clinic, if not already done so. There is a charity called the "British Infertility Counselling Association" who offer help online at bica.net There is a charge but they just deal with all fertility issues and the relationships around it too. Good luck with whatever you do go ahead with - and for success. Diane

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We’re with access too. We’re still on cycle 1, had 3 transfers, 2 pregnancies, 3 losses! Emotionally it’s too much yet I feel I’m forced to undergo a second cycle in order to qualify for our refund! Part of me wants to keep going until we get our happy ending part of me wonders how much we have to endure to get there! Good luck whatever you decide to do xx