Feeling worried

Hello all

It’s my 4dp5dt

I am having cramping pain since last three days which only gets worse at night

I couldn’t sleep at all last night

Is this normal?

The pain is deep down the pelvis and at the right ovary , which is hurting

And my lower back

It feels like period pain

I constantly feel that I have done something terrible and the embryo growth might have arrested

Feeling lost already

This was my 4 th transfer and I already feel like giving up

I know I am writing everyday on this forum

But it’s hard to tell these things to other people

I know lot of women are going through this right now

It’s getting really hard☹️

[Kat9lives]

Hi lovely, have you been drinking enough water? It could be dehydration or early signs of OHSS. I could also be implantation cramping. It's not over by any means, try and drink more water and ring your clinic incase they want to check your bloods xx

[Hidden in reply to Kat9lives]

I am drinking enough water

And this was an FET

So I dnt think this is OHSS

Dnt know where the cramps are coming from and why do they get worse at night

I dnt feel anything during the day time😕

[Keepingfaith85 in reply to Hidden]

Hi I had FET too and I found that meds caused cramping type pains at night. It eased off after a few days but always seemed to hit about 4am and woke me up sometimes. I think it was the progynova and I had cramps before FET and after.

[Kat9lives in reply to Hidden]

I must have missed that you had a FET. Cramping can be caused from the drugs also so try not to read too much into it all.

[Mrsti]

Hi, im in the same boat and know exactly how your feeling. I keep looking for every little sign that its worked or not, was feeling quite positive until today and out of no where just feel its not worked. I have to keep giving myself a bit if a pep talk. I wish there was something that we could do to get the outcome we want, its all such a game if chance. Its doesn't help that the meds can cause all these things too. Im sorry i cant say anything thats going to make you stop worrying, i know theres nothing that will make me worry less too, i just wanted you to know your not on your own xxx

[Hidden in reply to Mrsti]

Yes dear that’s exactly how I am feeling right now

We are so much into the symptoms

It drives me crazy

And we really can’t control anything

Just have to wait until the blood tests

I am preparing myself for the worst

It’s as if I am already convinced that this hasn’t worked

And thinking about what to do next

[Dolly8]

Hello gorgeous, it’s so tough this phase isn’t it. I had strange feelings early on and some spotting, but today on OTD I have a positive result! So who knows....keep strong. I did test each day from 6dp and I think it has helped (used FRER). Best of luck sweetie xx

[Hidden in reply to Dolly8]

Congratulations to you dear😊

Did you get positive From the 6 th day?

[Dolly8 in reply to Hidden]

Yup very faint on the FRER test. X