Feeling sad

[Judy18]

Had a tough evening feeling sad and crying as i feel i am letting so much people down. Still waiting for appointment from the fertility clinic. Also worried as i am already letting my husband down as i have the issue and now he has a wife who is always sad. So pleased for everyone who is getting their BFP. Baby dust to all us warriors powering on. Love to all xxx

[crisps88]

Aww hun I am so so sorry to read you’re feeling like this. I could’ve wrote this myself my first cycle I felt like a failure and possibility it was empty follicle syndrome. Its heart breaking and nothing I can say or do will make you feel any better but you’re doing amazing your husband would say that. You’re doing this for both of you and you’re so strong to be putting yourself through this for your family remember that. Ivf is such an emotional rollercoaster it’s crazy, try and prepare yourself for big challenges and look at the bigger picture. Enjoy yourselves before ivf, do everything you can’t before the cycle starts and remember the couple you are! Thinking of you big hugs xx

[Squeak2]

Big hugs Judy18! You’re not letting yourself or your husband down never mind anyone else. This journey has so many highs and lows it’s worse than the best rollercoaster... sometimes it’s hard to explain just how we are feeling to our OHs but it’s worth it if even a tiny bit as it takes a little pressure off whilst having to wait for appointments! Much love 💕 xx