Feeling sad...

[Becky179]

Morning lovely ladies,

Well as I thought my ET wasn't successful. My bleeding on Thursday led onto my AF. Today was my OTD and feel very deflated about it all. I'm so tired & can't really believe my body has been through so much to still lead on to a BFN.

Sadly we can't afford to try again for the foreseeable future. So we've decided to go back to basics and go au natural for a while! My mother in law is going on a crystal shop and going to get me a selection of fertility & body stones to keep with me too! We hope that we may have a little miracle again. We've still got all our baby stuff from before so I'm going to sell it all so it's not looming over us as a sad reminder all the time. And then buy it again as and when we may hopefully be lucky enough to need it.

I hope you all get your BFP's and I wish every single one of you a happy and fulfilling life. You've been a god send & have really helped me through this journey. I will keep you all up to date on if we have our 2nd miracle!

Baby dust to you all 💖💖💖

[Petree86]

Hi hun, really sorry to hear that it hasn't worked this time round and you are taking a break from the IVF process. Good luck with everything and I wish you all the best xx

[Becky179 in reply to Petree86]

Thank you very much. Yeah I need to give my mind and well being a break for a bit! Good luck to you xxx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Becky179. So sorry to hear this and let's hope that Mum-in-Law gets the right crystals for you - you never know! It will probably do you some good to have a break from treatment, but should you need to try again and are short on funds, perhaps tuck at the back of your mind that you could possibly share some of your eggs to help with costs?? just a thought. Meanwhile enjoy your au natural and I will keep everything crossed for you. Diane

[Becky179 in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you Diane, it's really nice to have you on the site, offering words of comfort and advice to all of us. Xxx

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK in reply to Becky179]

Hi Becky179. Thank you for your kind comments. Diane

[pm27]

Sorry to hear it didn't work. I felt so shocked when we got our first BFN as it had all gone to plan and still failed.

Let's hope the crystals work their magic!

[Becky179 in reply to pm27]

Thank you. Well you never know I did acupuncture for this round so will try other alternative treatments now naturally. I'lllet you all know which ones she buys & why! Good luck to you Xx