Second iui prep

[Noah1981]

Hi ladies just wondered after beating myself up all week what I done wrong this time round that my iui failed I wondered if there is possibly anything else I can do different in preparation for my second round.AF arrived today and it’s just made the reality hit home a bit harder that it failed first time .I didn’t drink I ate healthy and I tried to be as relaxed as I could be it’s been emotional since my partner got home yesterday as I imagined our weekend to be one of exciting planning (I know I got ahead of myself) don’t we all ? Anyways ladies have a lovely weekend and we will keep fighting the fight I suppose till we get our happy ever after I mean poor Snow White slept for 100 yrs till a Prince came along and woke her with a kiss if only fertility treatment was that easy 💁‍♀️💁‍♀️ Xx

[Lexigrace2017]

I'm in tears for u hun as I'm preparing to go for my first round IUI and I'm terrified but I'm hoping and praying we get good news soon, if u ever need talk I'm always always hear its such a heartbreaking and emotional journey when all u really want is to be a mom no one knows what it's like till there hot with it but hopefully all will work out in end, be thinking of u

[chickp]

I know these type of ‘tips’ aren’t really of any help but we got a bfp after our 5th iui (technically 3rd iui as two were cancelled) and all I did differently was force myself to go to bed half an hour earlier every night in an attempt to counteract end-of-term teacher tiredness as our cycle was in December. Also I had mentally given up and was ready to move on to ivf! Unfortunately the pregnancy didn’t work out but I definitely think sleeping more is worth a try as I felt generally healthier - but then I am always tired...

Anyway, best of luck for your next cycle x

[Noah1981 in reply to chickp]

Thank you chickp it’s only round one and i just feel so emotionally drained like I’ve let the world down that’s how I feel bad day today with emotions tomorrow I will slap myself and focus again xx good luck to you too xx

[crisps88]

Hi lovely. The only thing I different for my second ivf cycle personally was take 9293930 different vitamins and minerals and dhea in advice of my consultant. I’m currently on 10 day wait 😬 so remains to be seen. I had a lot of meds changes but mine was egg quantity and quality. Im sorry it didn’t turn out positive for you. I blamed myself and thought I was the worlds biggest failure and I had let my husband down. I then became kinder to myself and realised how much we actually do throughout this process and you can’t beat yourself up. I hope your wedding plan help “distract” you even though so much easier said than done! Relax, take some time to enjoy yourself and let yourself go a little bit of you can. Take care X x x

[SweliM]

Im sorry dear to hear this news , I believe there is nothing that you did wrong , It just devil he is trying to make us give up . DON'T give us derlng go for another round i know it hurt ive been there . But after few days you will be fine and prepare for a next round giving up is not an option let support one another and we will pass this and have our little one like other womans.

Keep well

[CLou21]

Hey, dont over think it! You are doing right by taking care of yourself and thats all you can do in this situation. The clinic/nurses will talk you through anything else that can be done to help, but in the mean time just take care ☺️✨

[Noah1981 in reply to CLou21]

Thank you xx

[HopeTTC18]

Please don’t beat yourself up. IUI has very low success rates. You didn’t do anything wrong. It has about an 80% chance of not working each try! I am hopeful you will be one of the ladies that beats the odds to get your BFP X

[Noah1981 in reply to HopeTTC18]

Thank you x

[Hidden]

I haven’t got tips but just sending you lots of luck! X

[Noah1981 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you xx August 8th for follow up and treatment plan xx