Second ivf failed

[Green_]

Good morning ladies! Here I am again my second round of ivf failed.

I started bleeding last Friday, day 8 post transfer so I knew then that’s failed again. I’m so heartbroken but I don’t need to explain to any of you this as you all know that horrible pain and wanting to scream 😢. Today I had to do the test BFN as expected.

I feel so angry and I don’t know who I’m angry or what I’m angry at. Luckily it’s my day off and I’m home alone with nobody to take my anger on. I hope it will get better before my lovely husband gets home from work.

This was our last try on NHS and we don’t have any frozen embryos so we will be looking at going private in the near future.

Have any of you lovely ladies used a private clinic I’m Wales? Any recommendations would be appreciated. If not allowed to post on here please private message me.

Going to call the clinic now to give them the news 😢.

I wish you all a lovely day. Xx

[jm22]

I'm so sorry to hear this, we recently had our 2nd and final failed cycle with nhs, it's so hard. We've just started counselling to try to help us process everything. I can't help u with private clinics, but I hope someone else on here can advise. Take the time u need to process and grieve,so sorry again. Oh and I recommend screaming if u need too, I've done it a few times and it actually does help xox

[Green_ in reply to jm22]

Hi jm22. Im sorry to hear that your cycle failed too. It’s so heartbreaking. I hope the councelling helps. I also have my councelling lady calling me next week. I’ve never done councelling so I am a little bit anxious about it. Everything is so stressful when you feel so lost. Wishing you all the best xx

[jm22 in reply to Green_]

Neither of us had had counselling before either, it did feel a bit strange, but I'm glad we went and looking forward to going back.Hope u get on ok with it, good luck xox

[Green_ in reply to jm22]

Thank you xx

[Kyell2]

I’m so sorry that it’s not been good news😔. Take some time for you and your hubby and maybe plan something nice to look forward to xx

[Green_ in reply to Kyell2]

Thank you Kyell2. We are so busy with work but hopefully we will be able have a holiday in the next few months. Being busy in work helps tbh. Wishing you all the best. Xx

[aamiller405]

Sorry I have no advice but just wanted to stop by and say I'm very sorry to hear this and take care of yourself x

[Green_ in reply to aamiller405]

Thank you. I hope all goes well for you. Fingers crossed 🤞 this is our year! Xxx

[Ginger1984]

Hi I've just failed ivf aswell 9dpt I'm devastated. I wiped first thing and it was red blood, when I went again about an hour later more red blood with alot of the gel in it. Didn't go to work that day as couldn't stop crying when I did go back to work on Fri just gone staff asked how I was and that made me cry more. It's so hard as they told us the egg was a grade A. This was private so we've lost £7000 which is even more upsetting. We had ivf 3 years ago on nhs and we were so lucky it worked first time so we were really thinking it would work this time. We are both gonna try and get more healthier and loose weight then try one more time in 4 or 5 months time. Can't afford to do anymore after that. I really hope yours next time works.

[Green_ in reply to Ginger1984]

Hi Ginger 1984. So sorry to hear about your failed cycle. It’s so upsetting and unless you’ve been through it you will never understand it. I know people are kind but we only told a few of my family members and 2 friends as I don’t want to have to explain myself every time we have an appointment . We had 2 nhs cycles so now when feel ready to start again we will have to either self fund with the nhs clinic or find another private clinic. I don’t know what the cost will be but £7000 sounds a lot of money. We want to get a bit healthier and start again maybe in about 4 months. I hope that next time works for both of us. Xxx