Devastated.

[Hope4usall]

Well our transfer of our last little frostie has been cancelled as it didn't make the thaw. We had only been in Madrid two hours when we got the call.

We're devastated. What more can be thrown at us?

[strong-girl]

Stay strong x this journey is difficult but hopefully there will b light at the end of the tunnel

[Cinderella5]

Awww Im so so sorry sweetie!! Life really does throw us the hardest deal sometimes. Massive hugs.xxx

[Hope4usall in reply to Cinderella5]

It does. Thank you xxx

[KJLee]

I’m so sorry to hear this 😪 feel devastated for you xx

[Hope4usall in reply to KJLee]

Thanks hun. We're devastated too xx😔

[Hidden]

Hey, I’m so sorry to read this and I’m devastated for you 💔 this journey is so cruel xxx

[GoingMental]

Awe so sorry to hear this, absolutely gutted for you. Stay strong xx

[Noah1981]

Gutted for you big hugs xx

[everhopeful83]

Really sorry to read this😢 sending hugs💞xx

[AS100]

I’m so sorry, it’s such a tough unfair battle 😞 Massive hugs ❤️ Xxx

[Solly-44]

Oh love, I’m so sorry. Life can be so cruel, look after yourself xx

[Hollibob]

🙁 x

[MissSaoPaulo]

What a shame hon, so sorry to hear this xxx

[Kyell2]

I’m so sorry. What a massive disappointment 😔. Look after yourself xx

[Lots8788]

So sorry look after yourself x big hugs x

[Mantaray75]

So sad to read this. Si and I are both gutted for you guys. Was so hoping this was your time. Just take each day at a time. Big hugs. X

[Hope4usall in reply to Mantaray75]

Us too. We just have to keep going. Thanks for your message hun xxx

[Emmaxxx]

Oh no. Hun. I don’t know what to say apart from I’m so sorry and take some time to decide your next step. Sending big hugs xxx

[Hidden]

Oh no I’m so sorry x

[Gueritarubia]

Oh I’m so sorry and sad to read this! You so deserved this to be your turn... Why is this process so cruel? You’re a fighter, the warrior in you will come back. Take care of yourself and allow yourselves to take things easy for a bit. Big hug

[Hope4usall]

Thanks for all your messages of support. We have each other and lovely family and friends so we have a lot to be thankful for.

We managed to arrange an appointment with the consultant this afternoon to discuss our next steps as we were already in Madrid, it seemed like the right thing so our trip wasn't completely wasted. He was very positive. We will go with a different donor this time and will have to keep everything crossed. He said there are no reasons it won't work but there is no way of knowing how many goes it will take until we succeed. apparently 92=95% of embryos survive the thawing process. We seem to be very unlucky and are the small percentage statistic rather than the majority!

Next transfer will likely be sept\oct. Thank you for your support and sending your positive messages. It really does help. Too top it off I had my phone stolen this afternoon on our way back from clinic...I was desperate to get to my iPad to check your messages of support, it helps that much xx

[Hidden in reply to Hope4usall]

Oh no Hope4usall, I am so sad to read your post. Your update does sound positive though. Wishing you all the luck in the world for sep/Oct. Big hugs to you both xx

[Missy_22]

I’m so sorry this is heartbreaking xxx take care 😞

[Debrakay1704]

so sorry to hear this, please take care. xx

[Beacon_of_hope]

So sorry to hear it must be so devastating after the excitement of my the trip over. Please don’t give up hope, you sound very strong so keep going and look after each other xx

[Scarlett13]

I’m soooooo sorry xxxxx are you still going to have a break in Madrid or are you coming back home? Such an awful situation. That embryo wasn’t meant to be your baby but one day one will be the perfect match. It’s better in a way that it didn’t survive the thaw than not surviving inside you and making the pain harder and longer. Are you going to go again? Big hugs xxxx

[Hope4usall in reply to Scarlett13]

Yes I thought that. Rather this than a miscarriage. It obviously wasn't meant to be this time. We o my stayed a day in Madrid due to work commitments anyway. We will go with another donor and will hope for transfer sept/Oct. Unfortunately Madrid wind down for summer end of July so donors won't be stimulating again until sept I don't think. Xx

[fridayfever]

I'm so sorry, really feel for you.

Your not alone though xx

We've also just had a failure, after 3 rounds we had a transfer (only 1 egg available) and bfn.

Really struggling to know what to do next, no finances and feeling like end of our journey as my body not up to it keeps failing me. Xx

[Fareena1904]

Sorry to hear this, remain strong x