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it’s never ending.

So 8years ttc and 4 rounds of ivf in the last year and a half the following has happened.....

Sister in law had Alexander

Best friend had phoebe

Sister had struan

Cousin due 4th aug

And today my other friend of 25 years has announced she is due in February honestly shoot me now xxx

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Stam34

Hey, i know it’s tough. I have been ttc for 8 yrs too ...with very little emotional support. But hang in there lovely. I pray your time come soon. Take care of yourself ok 💕

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Strawberrychaos

I know exactly how you feel I felt exactly the same at one point. My husband and I started trying to conceive in 2011 shortly after our marriage. It took until 2017 to get pregnant after two cycles of fertility treatment. In the mean time

My friend had two babies

My sister had my niece

My best friend had a baby

My step brothers wife had a baby

Several of my cousins had babies.

I honestly felt like to odd one out, every month I waited and tested, every month negative. Then getting announcements of pregnancies which felt constant and pregnant women everywhere was sometimes so hard to handle. We were relieved in the end when we were told we’d never have one naturally cause at least we stopped hoping every month. I can totally sympathise with your feelings it’s only natural to feel that way when you want something so much. The only thing that kept us going was the hope that we would be lucky and eventually we were. I wish you all the luck with your future treatment and hope you get your bfp very soon xx

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discobec

Pregnancy announcements are the hardest thing to deal with when you're going through infertility.

I lost count of the babies born during our 5 years of TTC.

We got to make our own announcement last year after our second cycle of IVF and our gorgeous boy is now 4 months old.

Hang in there. Stay positive and I hope you get there soon. Xx

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LunaLovegood11

Aww it’s so hard when it seems to never be our turn 😞 allow yourself some distance from it all if you need to. Sending you lots of luck xxx

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