Out with my friend today and of course the conversations of babies comes up, she asks when me & my hubby are thinking of having children..
I thought she already knew about my miscarriage but I was obvs mistaken. Once I'd told her that I had miscarried she started asking questions like was I in hospital etc so I explained i had to have medical management so had to take medication and stay in for the day.
She then went on to say 'oh yeah, my sister was the same she had to take medication last year cause she had an abortion'
I didn't want to get angry at her so kind of politely said well really it's nothing the same and made excuses to leave.
What I really wanted to yell in her face was NO THERE NOTHING THE SAME, your sister had a choice, I didn't!!
Why is there still just a taboo around miscarriage and infertility π’