Missed miscarriage

[Mishmash12]

So on thursday I went for a scan at Mothercare I'd of been 10weeks 3days the scan show no heartbeat my baby died at 7weeks 3days I'm heartbroken my 1st try at ivf got my BFP to have my heart broken in to little bits like this.. im booked in to have baby removed on Tuesday I'm dreading it.. My 10year old son was with us at the scan and I'm broken for him as well my fella is being so strong for me he brakes down but I can see he's only holding it together for me I can't believe I seen my babies heartbeat at 6.5weeks and now this.. only reason for ivf is I've had both tubes removed so silly me thought everything would of been ok I can't stop crying I don't feel I can face any one I just want to hide away at home

[Solly-44]

I’m so so sorry. I can’t even imagine your pain right now so won’t be able to say anything that helps. Sending you hugs xx

[Mishmash12 in reply to Solly-44]

Thank you hun xx

[Drives]

Oh hun, can't imagine how you & your family are feeling right now. Sending you lots of love at this difficult time

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[Mishmash12 in reply to Drives]

Thank you hun heartbroken doesn't even come close xx

[Drives in reply to Mishmash12]

Really wish there was something I could say to help 😢 Look after yourself lovely x x x x x

[Mishmash12 in reply to Drives]

I don't think anyone can make this better I just can't believe how silly I was to think once I was pregnant seen heartbeat then everything would be ok I wish I didn't get my hopes up and wish I never planned all the things I was going to buy just gutted I really am xx but thank you xx

[Cinderella5]

I'm so sorry to hear you've lost your little on! Absolutely heartbreaking & so cruel. Sending lots of love & hugs.xx

[Mishmash12 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you hun xx all the best and I hope you get you happy ending this time sending you all the luck and well wishes in the world xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to Mishmash12]

Thank you that's really kind and I really appreciate it! I hope all goes as well as it can do on Tuesday! Thinking of you.xxx

[MissSaoPaulo]

This is so heartbreaking, I'm so sorry hon xxx

[Lou7744]

I’m so, so sorry to read this. It’s truly heartbreaking 💕 xx

[bextoliver]

I’m so sorry xx

[Noah1981]

So sorry sweetheart I hope you find the strength going forward xxx

[Hidden]

Hi I’m sorry your going through this I was going to take my kids to a scan thought it be nice but with our 1st mmc at 12w I’m pleased I didn’t. It’s the worst thing going to a scan and there nothing to be seen or no heart beat. Take your time it’s really hard emotionally x

[Mishmash12 in reply to Hidden]

I thought because I had already seen the heartbeat at 6.5weeks that everything would be fine how silly of me my son is doing ok my fella is doing ok but me on the other hand I'm a mess my fella don't even sound like he wants to try again I've already said I'm not ready but I don't think he wants to try which I find harder as my dream was to have his baby I don't even no how I should feel.. how long did it take for you to feel a little better in yourself? Xx

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[purplerain2000]

Argh I am so sorry my lovely, this is a harsh, cruel and traumatic card to deal with. I am currently in the exact same position went for my scan also at baby bonds last Thursday and was told the same, no heartbeat and baby stopped growing at 6 weeks it was my 8 week scan. Have to go to the EPU tomorrow for further scanning but the last few days have been so upsetting. There are no words that will take away the pain you are currently feeling, just spend lots of time with your hubby and son talking to them and lots of hugs with them both. This place is great for support, if you need to talk you are welcome to PM me anytime. thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs xx

[Mishmash12 in reply to purplerain2000]

I'm sorry your going through this as well it's horrible today I feel worse every Monday I was another week 11weeks I'm ment to be today I'm so scared about tomorrow I can't face anyone just locking myself away sending you lots of love xx

[SJYoung]

I feel for you Mishmash nothing prepares you for that bad news, I am due to have medical management tomorrow after finding out my baby died at 6w2d. I have waited 12 days for nature to take its course but nothing xx

[Mishmash12 in reply to SJYoung]

They wanted me to wait but I just couldn't I no my body there no way it will do it it's self as it's been 4weeks now it's been dead inside me and nothing bar some pain I hope everything goes as well as it can be today I'm there tomorrow I'm dreading it and so scared sending lots of love xx

[SJYoung in reply to Mishmash12]

Thanks you!! Yesterday was painful but a relief, I totally understand how you feel. You can't truly begin to heal until the whole process is over. Hope all goes well for you today xx