I feel like a lot of sad posts have happened lately and unfortunately I have one to add. I had my 10 week scan today and I found out there was no heartbeat. Baby measured 8 weeks 1 day so it must have happened two week ago which I find really hard to process. I'm thinking of letting myself naturally miscarry but may move to medical.
We are both distraught and trying to process this at the mo. I'm finding this ivf process too hard and not sure how I'll ever get the courage to try again!
I'm so sorry this is sad news because I wanted to give others hope. This is why I documented the whole process. Everyone going through this journey Please keep hope. There will be a baby at the end of this journey! Love to you all ❤️
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Oh hunny this is so sad,😢Absolutely devastating for you and your partner, take plenty of cuddle time for each other, thinking of you, and yes always hope!! Hope for us all including you, keep believing it will happen ❤️💋💋
I’m so sorry to read this. Take your time to grieve and look after yourselves before worrying about whether you’ll ever have the courage to try again. Get through it one day at a time x
oh my God. I am so sorry to read this. It is very devastating. My heart goes out to you and hubby. Please stay strong. Yes we will keep hoping and fighting till we get those babies.
Oh no honey; this is absolutely heart breaking You`ve given us so much hope with your posts ... Please update us on your next moves; we are all here for you. Sending hugs and prayers x
So sorry no words can you make you feel better at this time but like you said just remember there will be a baby at the end of this. Keep strong and look after yourself xx
my heart breaks for you. Take time to grieve. Our baby died at 9 wks but didn't find out until nearly 14 wks so can imagine how you're feeling. We're all here for you for support. Massive hugs xx
I am so so sorry to hear this. Literally nothing anyone can say will make you feel better but know you are not alone. I felt so isolated in my grief when our cycle ended in miscarriage and I now know there were so many people I could have spoken to.
Take time to heal and process your loss. I couldn't entertain ivf for over a year after our little baby died but please don't lose hope.
Hunny this makes me want to cry, your so supportive on here with so many of us and really deserve your happy ending. Take care of yourself, sending lots of love x x
I'm so sorry to hear this. I feel so sad for all you ladies who have lost your beautiful babies recently. I hope you'll feel strong enough to try again soon. Take care xx
I’m so, so sorry to hear this Claire. I have suffered from a missed miscarriage myself so know the devastation it brings. I wasn’t given a choice and was left for things to happen naturally. Thinking of you and your husband. Be kind to each other xxxxx
Oh no Claire! I don’t know what to say. So heart breaking. Sending you big hugs and strength and love. Here if you want to talk, shout, scream, cry. So sorry 😢 xxx
So sorry to hear this, take care of yourself and sending huge hugs xx
Oh no, I’m so sorry. I’ve had two natural miscarriages and I would do it this way again if necessary. One was painful (very) and one was not, but I think if I had the pain again I would be aware that stronger painkillers are out there and I’d go to the dr or a&e and ask for them.
It sounds weird but I felt sort of proud that my body was able to manage to miscarry by itself if it had to do it at all. At least it was something I could do without too much help, having needed external help for every other blooming step of the process. And my cycles went back to normal straight away, which I’m sure is because it was a natural miscarriage each time.
I'm so so sorry hun. I know what you mean regarding sad news I feel it's all around us recently. You couples have ultimate strength I swear and don't think about doing anything just yet. Just give yourselves time to process this sad news and find the strength to get through it. Remember were all here and those that know exactly what your going through can help offer advice. I'm so sorry hun. Lots of love to you 💗🤗😘
C_L_A_I_R_E I am sorry for your loss honey 😭 I know there is a baby waiting for all of us 😁
I have 2 months wait now maybe in December they will book me in to see the doctor fingers crossed 🤞 lets see after that how long they gonna take to transfer the embryo 🤔
All the best to all lovely ladies please never give up 😊😘
This is exactly what happened to me. I cannot tell you how sorry I am you’re going through this. It is a very difficult thing to process. I’m now 4.5 months on from being told the same news and it does get easier but it never really makes total sense. Be good to yourself. Thinking of you xx
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You`ve given us so much hope with your posts ... Please update us on your next moves; we are all here for you. Sending hugs and prayers x
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