Just got my blood test results back and gutted to say it was negative, I was convinced it had worked this time and just feel exhausted 😓
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Oh I’m so sorry 😞 xx
in reply to Tugsgirl
Thankyou, I just don't know what more I can do! Xx
Tugsgirl in reply to
I’m sorry I don’t have any answers for you only to say, don’t give up, if you can carry on then carry on. It’s taken me 6 attempts to get where I am now and I would have given it at least another two if I’d had to. Wishing you the very best xx
Oh Claire, I’m so sorry to hear this. It’s just beyond sad and my heart breaks for you. Sending lots of hugs and love xx
am so sorry to hear this Claire. xxxx
in reply to Debrakay1704
Thankyou Debrakay, it's very raw right now but I know I will have to pick myself back up!! Xx
Debrakay1704 in reply to
Of course it is, please just do everything that is right for you and that you need right now, I know it is heartbreaking, please take care. xxx
in reply to Debrakay1704
Thankyou hun xxx
I am so sorry to read this Claire 😢
I am heartbroken for you.
BFNs can be so crushing.
Hope you have loads of love and support arround you.
Please let me know if you need to talk.
in reply to CatDV
Thankyou, I really appreciate that. I do have great family and friends but with 2 nephews ready to be born not sure how I'm going to cope x
CatDV in reply to
Oh my goodness, 2 baby’s on the way sound so harsh on your current situation!
With a baby cousin on the way I had to delete my Instagram as I couldn’t cope with the updates. We got pregnant at about the same time, but sadly I lost mine, so I was constantly comparing. Not healthy.
I do much hope that you find your own ways of coping.
Although the timing is awful I hope that when those babies are born you find even more motivation to keep fighting and give them a baby cousin to play with very very soon xxx
in reply to CatDV
It is really tough and I totally understand what you are going through, I lost mine around the same time as my sis in laws announced their pregnancies and my due date will have been 1st week in April so it's going to be tough.
in reply to CatDV
Xxx
Hello, so so so so sorry(((
I know what you feel now, I had bfn twice. Don't lose your heart! Take a break, rest a little bit and when you will be ready, do it again! Of course, it is easier to say than to do but, you know, miracles happen and they are really worth waiting!
in reply to SunnyDream
Thankyou, I know it takes some ladies longer than other to achieve their dreams, I just wished I had a crystal ball like we all do to know it would come good in the end but I'm not done yet xx
I’m so sorry, sending hugs 💕🌷xx
in reply to Kcrochet
Thankyou Kcrochet, I've just got to keep going and try everything I can xx
Sending lots of love sweetheart 💕 xxx
in reply to wemma83
Thankyou Wemma, how are you feeling?
Your profile pic makes me smile, I have a little black cat and she's been giving me extra snuggles and face rubs the last couple of days, she knows when I'm upset bless her xxx
wemma83 in reply to
I’m doing ok thanks lovely, feeling very anxious leading up to our scan on Friday but trying to stay positive 🙏🏻
Aww, they’re so intuitive aren’t they? My little fluff ball Daisy never leaves me alone when I’m feeling sad 💕
Hope you’re doing ok sweetheart xxx
in reply to wemma83
It's natural to be anxious because of everything we have to go through to get a BFP and I know the time can go even slower than the 2ww!! Sending you lots of virtual hugs and look forward to the update xxx
So sorry xo
in reply to aamiller405
Thankyou, I'm so sorry to read your post too, it must be really hard that your transfer was cancelled,I know how you build yourself up in readiness xx
aamiller405 in reply to
Thank you, take care of yourself xo
Sorry to hear this and know how hard it can be when new babies in the family - my sister had a baby in October and it was a mental struggle when she told me! Every failed cycle is a blow but I’m eternally optimistic it will work once the protocol and treatment is right and with a caring clinic and I hope the same for you! I agree it would be great to know there was a positive end result sometime as then we could relax and just wait for then! Keep on fighting X
in reply to Hoping2019
Thankyou for your message, you are right it's just getting the right protocol for us, and have faith in my clinic as they have high success rates, I think I just assumed that I would have had success by now going down the DE route but there must be an under lining issue!! So sorry that you are also going through the same thing x
So sorry to read this, hoping you’ve got lots of support around you xx
in reply to Core
Thankyou, I do have lots of support but still feel isolated to be honest because my family and friends can't really relate to what I'm feeling and I don't expect them to, so grateful I have this forum.
How are you surviving the 2ww xx
Core in reply to
Yes everyone on this forum is amazing, we had our 2nd BFN last week it’s been hard but we have our doctors appointment booked now so that helps. Do you know your next steps yet?xx
in reply to Core
So sorry to hear you also had another BFN, how are you coping?
My clinic is in the Czech Republic do emailed them last thing Fri to ask if I could have a call with the Consultant to discuss what we can do differently, we have 1 frozen embryo left xx
Core in reply to
The first week I was very down, lots of tears and anger. I also worry if there’s something wrong with me as I’ve never had a positive pregnancy test. I’m feeling better now we have a consultation booked, hoping we can get some answers and do something different for our next frostie. Great that you also have a frostie left, hope your phone call can provide you with some answers xx
So sorry 😔 it’s so hard!xx
in reply to silverlini
It really is, so sorry to read about your chemical pregnancy. Are you going to go ahead with the clinics suggestion? Xx
silverlini in reply to
We are going ahead with our only frozen embryo next. I’ve had a whole load of blood tests to see if there is anything wrong with me. If the frozen one doesn’t work we will do another fresh cycle using the embryo gen xx
So sorry, it's such hard a hard process, take time to urself an build up to go again. We will get our happy ending xx
in reply to Littleflower82
Thankyou. How are you feeling? I too had pineapple core for 5 days and kept my feet warm haha so hope your resting up and being looked after. I will keep everything crossed for you 🍀🙏 xx
Littleflower82 in reply to
Hi ya feeling ok, had my pineapple core and pomegranate juice this morning. I do think they are old wives tales but I take them anyway.
in reply to Littleflower82
It's always best to cover all basis!! Wishing you the very best of luck x
Am so sorry, having had 2 BFN’s and 1 miscarriage I know how much emotional pain you are in. All I can advise is have a good break then back on your mission as it will happen it’s just a question of when. Have you researched endo scratches ? I believe it helps with implantation issues.....xx
in reply to Hope76
Hi hope, so sorry that you have also been through the same. We have one frozen left and if don't use by Jul will have to pay for another years storage so think I will look to go end of June,which gives me a few months, I'm 42 in Aug and don't feel like time is on my side, although using DE. I have heard of endo scratches and I will definitely look into it more as I will try anything!! This cycle I was on baby aspirin, steroids, Clexane, progynova, Utrogestan and also had intralipid so not sure what else the consultant will suggest next time?? Xx
So sorry to be reading this. BFN is horrible especially when you believed it had worked. Take it easy x
in reply to Mifkipi
Thankyou Mifkipi, it must have been the meds!! I had been so tired that I had convinced myself it was a positive sign but wasn't meant to be this time round xx
I’m so sorry to be reading this. BFN’s are exhausting... I feel your pain having recently been through another one. You sound like a lady on a mission and I’m sure you’ll achieve your dream 💕 xx
in reply to Lou7744
So sorry about your BFN too, it just seems to get harder each time doesn't it. Just trying not to lose hope, it's hard not knowing why!! Sending you lots of virtual hugs xx
Oh Claire I'm so gutted for you honey! Massive love and hugs.😘💔xxx
in reply to Cinderella5
Thankyou Cinders, it feels like it gets harder each time!! Love and hugs to you too xxx
Cinderella5 in reply to
It's so bloody crap when we're literally doing all that we can!!💔😩😥 Hang on in there honey, hopefully we'll get there!!😘💖🤞xxx
It's so disappointing when that happens when you think you are getting something and no you aren't!
in reply to
I had convinced myself it had worked this time but just wasn't out time 😒
Oh no I am so sad to read this. Sending you big hugs and I really hope you get there xxx
in reply to
Thanks Camillage, hope your doing well xxx
I’m so sorry xxx
in reply to Jenjen84
Thanks Jen,hope your ok xxx
Jenjen84 in reply to
I’m ok thank you, 4 days into my 4th transfer, already going a bit crazy! I hope your ok everything considered? It’s such a rollercoaster.. Sending lots of love xxx
in reply to Jenjen84
Thankyou. Hopefully the rest of your 2ww won't be too painful and wishing you a positive result xx
I’m so sorry. It’s so awful that our bodies trick us into believing it’s worked only to let us down.
Be kind to yourself and take some time to recover xx
Sorry hun, I felt like that my first cycle & spent a few days just feeling numb & in shock before I could take it in. Sending you lots of love, I hope you’re taking time for yourself this weekend xxx
in reply to Novice_knitter
Thankyou, I stayed in my PJ's all day yesterday as didn't want to face the world!! Today woken up with more of a fighting attitude!!! Also decided to attend a support group, think it will do me good xx
Really sorry to hear of your BFN. I hope can move forward with a plan. Wishing you a better outcome next time ✨🤞🏻🌈❤️ xoxo
in reply to
Thanks sweetie, hopefully my Consultant can shed some light. How are you doing? Xxx
So sorry to read this❤️xx
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