BFN. : The hospital have just rung to... - Fertility Network UK

Fertility Network UK

52,629 members57,835 posts

BFN.

helsroo profile image
15 Replies

The hospital have just rung to confirm what I already knew - BFN.

The sympathy in the nurse's voice was just painful to hear.

This time feels worse than last time, somehow. Very flat, very final.

Written by
helsroo profile image
helsroo
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
15 Replies
Goodthingscome profile image
Goodthingscome

Really sorry to hear this Hels, sending lots of love. Be nice to yourself xx

Smithha profile image
Smithha

I'm so sorry to hear this lovely, look after yourself xxx thinking if you xxxx

Sprinkles86 profile image
Sprinkles86

Oh Hels I'm so sorry, I really hope you and hubby are doing ok (or as ok as you can be). Please know we are all thinking of you xxxxx

DianeArnold profile image
DianeArnoldPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Hi helsroo. So sorry to hear this, after all seemed to be going well. I do hope you're getting loads of support at the moment, and of course some rest. Maybe you will get to speak to your embryologist, for his/her thoughts as to what might have gone wrong. Thinking of you. Diane

Tugsgirl profile image
Tugsgirl

Sorry to hear this. It's very painful. Be kind to yourself. X

Cinderella5 profile image
Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that helsroo ! Its horrible getting the BFN even if we know deep down ourselves already. Take some time out for the both of you and plan something nice....have a treat, you deserve it! Sending you a big hug!xx

MommaBear16 profile image
MommaBear16

Helsroo I'm so sorry to read this. Be kind to yourself my love, you did your very best. Take some time to grieve and you'll start to get your strength back. Sending love x x x

Billiejean01 profile image
Billiejean01

So sorry to hear this, take care and look after yourself. Xx

Amanda86 profile image
Amanda86

So sorry helsroo,

Sending lots of love your way. Take care xxx

vic77 profile image
vic77

Oh honey I am so sorry.please know you did everything you could. I know exactly how you feel and like the girls say give yourself time to get a plan together that works for you. Take all the time you need as you are grieving. Sending massive hugs xxx

katya38 profile image
katya38

So sorry to hear this xx

Leesalou profile image
Leesalou

Sorry to read your post, :(

Big hugs 🤗

Take care x

Big hugs xxx

-noodles- profile image
-noodles-

oh i am so terribly sorry hels, it's such a cruel and unfair outcome, especially when you've been through so much.

PM anytime 😘

thinking of you & sending lots of love xx

72cloud9 profile image
72cloud9

So sorry to hear xxxx

Big hugs xxxx

You may also like...

BFN

not surprised) to see a BFN. I just felt so normal this past week that I knew our embies hadn't...

BFN

I did get a BFP on our last fresh round so I have high hopes for next time!!!

BFN 💔💔

worked this time and just feel exhausted 😓

BFN

Sadly it hasn’t worked out this time. All feels a bit weird after the last few months of meds scans...

BFN 😢

gutted and just feel numb. Had FET on November 30th. It all seemed to go well. However I knew it...