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Sadly it hasn’t worked out this time. All feels a bit weird after the last few months of meds scans and hopes leading up to today’s test. Not quite sure what to do with myself. Just hoping I bleed soon as I feel really bloated and looking forward to a good run and perhaps a glass of wine .... although somehow that doesn’t appeal.

Look after yourselves ladies and good luck to those currently cycling x

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Wishfully

It feels so gutting to have been through all of that and have a negative result - I’m sorry that you didn’t get better news 😔

I guess it wasn’t the quite the right embryo this time, so it wasn’t meant to be. Next time is a whole fresh start though and you have every chance 🤞

Sending big hugs. Have a good run, burn off some of your upset. Then maybe have a nice glass of wine and a cheeseboard in the bath! xxx

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SBeanbag in reply toWishfully

Oh you made the wine sound more appealing- thanks! X

I am so sorry it hasn’t worked for you this time. Sending lots of hugs xxxx

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Leo2017

So sorry to read this, bfn’s are so tough!! Look after yourself!! xx

I’m so sorry my love. BFN are never easy to take. Definitely deserve a glass of wine!! Look after yourselves ❤️xoxo

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Melissa11

Hey sbeanbag I’m in the same boat today, got BFN on test day Wed then told to repeat today and still BFN. This was our second round with a fet, we have one more frozen embryo stored away. I’m so emotionally drained and just feeling why hasn’t it worked? We have unknown infertility. 😩 hope your ok. 🙂

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SBeanbag in reply toMelissa11

Sorry to hear this - what an emotional rollercoaster. Such a lottery.

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drinathan

Sorry to hear that. I hope you recover soon. Weird isn’t it that wine doesn’t feel at all appealing after a bfn i would say it’s the only exception to the wine cures all rule I have xxx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear that! Hopefully you'll feel back to normal soon stopping the meds, it's crappy taking all of these drugs for what seems like nothing. Sending hugs.xx

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medzed09

Sending you a big hug x

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