Viability scan 6 weeks 6 days no heartbeat

[Emmanev1]

Hi everyone I have just undergone FET and should currently be 6 weeks 6 days. I had a little bleed last week nothing major and went to EPU I was 5 weeks+ 4 they could see a gestational sac nothing else. Today I had my viability scan there was a small fetal pole measuring 3.8mm and a large misshapen yolk sac and no fetal heartbeat. I've to go back to EPU now on Tuesday as this will be 2 weeks from their scan. The clinic have told me it's possible I've had an early miscarriage can anybody help me out please I'm so confused plus the waiting game continues.

[Nevergiveup21]

I’m so sorry your dealing with this. I have everything crossed for a good outcome on Tuesday. It’s so hard and I know the wait to Tuesday is torture. What did the clinic say about today’s scan? Sending you lots of love 💕💕💕

[Emmanev1 in reply to Nevergiveup21]

Thank you, she's told me it's not looking good and I need the next scan to confirm. I think the likely hood is I've had an early miscarriage. Xx

[Hidden]

It sounds like things are in the balance... things have changed from last week but a misshapen sac isn't great - but having said that its still early for a heartbeat. I know the waiting is torture (been there several times) but honestly you will find as many good news stories as bad stories on Google so I would try and keep your mind busy as much as possible, this weekend will be absolute torture waiting but Tuesday is not so far away and I wish you heaps of luck and calm. Hugs xx

[Emmanev1 in reply to Hidden]

Yeh I suppose when you put it like that it has progressed since last week. I'll be 7 weeks tomorrow so I think the heartbeat should really be there now. Thank you all this is just a constant waiting game and now I'm just like let's get this out of the way so I can start again xx

[try2020]

I have my fingers crossed for you hon 🧡

[Emmanev1 in reply to try2020]

Thank you 😊

[bearblue]

Hi Emmanev, I have no advice I’m sorry. I just wanted to wish you well for Tuesday. I know these days are going to crawl by but really hoping for the best for you. Keeping everything crossed.

[Emmanev1 in reply to bearblue]

Thank you 😊

[Hoop123]

Hi Emmanev, sending you lots of good wishes for Tuesday. I know the waiting game is absolutely the worst but if you can stay off Google and keep busy and distracted over the weekend (and be kind to yourself) then that's probably the best way forward for now. You've got lots of support here! Really hoping for a good outcome for you xx ❤️

[Emmanev1 in reply to Hoop123]

Hi hoop thank you for your kind words I appreciate it xx

[Jolinkomo]

Hang in there dear. I wish I can share your worries with you. But let's wait for Tuesday.

[Emmanev1 in reply to Jolinkomo]

Hi jolinkomo thank you xx

[Hope_1234]

I have my fingers crossed for you that everything will be ok xxx

[Emmanev1 in reply to Hope_1234]

Thank you 😊 xx

[pursuitofhappiness1]

Hi Lovely,

I just wanted to say that I’m sorry you’re in this limbo. I’ve been there myself and it really sucks. It wasn’t good news for me that time unfortunately but we had success after adding some immune treatment to my protocol and I’m now 35 weeks pregnant.

I’m a little confused when you say there was a fetal pole but no heartbeat - I thought they were the same thing? All the same I have my fingers crossed for you xx

[Emmanev1 in reply to pursuitofhappiness1]

Hi thank you for your message. Congratulations you have finally got there it's great to hear there is light at the end of the tunnel. Apparently the fetal pole is the embryo but mine hasn't got a heartbeat. Can I just ask how long did you wait for your next round after a miscarriage. Thanks hunny I'm still not bleeding as yet xx

[Liberty82 in reply to Emmanev1]

So sorry you're going through this, I've been there myself, exact same thing, 6+5, fetal pole, misshapen sac and no hb after ivf treatment. It was horrendous, I read your post and it really brought back all those emotions. It wasn't a good outcome for me unfortunately but I'm now 32 weeks pregnant and even though my loss was very painful, I was ok, I got through it and should the same thing happen to you, you will too. I just wanted to offer you a virtual hand hold and let you know you're not alone and I'm so sorry you're going through this very worrying time x

[Emmanev1 in reply to Liberty82]

Thank you so much for your message. I'm sorry you also went through the same it is just so very emotionally draining. Unfortunately it's ended for me too I've had confirmation today. But I feel a sense of relief it's over aswel. Congratulations you have got there in the end and good luck with your baby not long to go xx

[Moonmatrix]

Sorry you are going through this. Wish you the very best for Tuesday.

[Emmanev1 in reply to Moonmatrix]

Thank you 😊 xx