Just needing a moan after a tough Christmas night

[aamiller405]

Last night was much harder than I has anticipated. We always have a party sith OH's family... who I love to bits! But last nigjt was struggle for me.

Were waiting to start IVF soon which they all know, so I was sober. But the drunker everyone got the harder it was to listen to their "advice".. as well meant as it might have been.

This wasnt helped by the fact I had to spend the whole night beside the only other sober person who happens to be our teenage neice who got accidentally pregnant who spent all night complaining about how awful pregnancy was.....

Ok moan over...I hope you all had a lovely Christmas and to anyone who struggled, Im sorry, I hope 2019 is your year! xo

[Barbara1012]

Bless you, that’s tough. Al the best for 2019 xxx

[aamiller405 in reply to Barbara1012]

thank you..same to you xo

[_MrsC]

Blimey! What a tough night! You deserve a medal! I’m crying off being with new people tonight. I just can’t face the questions. I’ll take the intrusive judgemental comments on other days but Christmas and Boxing Day are out. 🤣 Keep your spirits up. 🤗 xxx

[aamiller405 in reply to _MrsC]

Agreed.. ive also cried off for tonight! Sometimes the best company relly is your own company lol xo

[runsoncuddles]

Hang in there, it's going to be alright. Wishing you nothing but the best in 2019 xx

[aamiller405 in reply to runsoncuddles]

thank you.. all the best to you too xo

[hannahding]

Hey, I can very much relate to you. I will also be starting my IVF in January. However, I haven't told my family yet. I am too scared to talk about myself anymore. This Christmas wasn't the best for me. I just didn't want to talk to anyone. However, when with family I did feel a lot better. Good luck to you.

[aamiller405 in reply to hannahding]

Wishing you all the luck in the world. hopefully next Christmas will be a much happier occassion xo

[kelsbels88]

Bless you that’s bit rough.

I had a slightly split xmas with OH’s family a week before the day as they were away for xmas day and I ended up looking after my three nieces/nephews (who I love dearly, but who’s parents take for granted what they have) and then at work have to listen to a colleague who got pregnant by accident on a one night stand complain about her symptoms.

So you’re not alone and I completely sympathise xxx

Good luck for the new year xx

[aamiller405 in reply to kelsbels88]

oh dear im sorry you didnt have a nice time either but hope next year is much better xo

[Snowy76]

Yup! I've noticed the ones who complain about pregnancy or give plentiful advice about what you "should" be doing are the ones who've never struggled to get pregnant in the first place!

[aamiller405 in reply to Snowy76]

Yep most days I can manage to shrug it off but Christmas amplifies things..hope you had a nice Christmas xo

[Dunla]

Oh no, that sounds like a tough night! Good luck for January and hoping 2019 is your year xx

[aamiller405 in reply to Dunla]

Same to you! xo